any advice please???

aidanpaige · Oct 29, 2007 6:18PM

hi i'm new to the site so hi 2 u all!!

i had a baby in january and since then my husband has had a vasectomy, which we were not counselled for, and he has still not as yet been given the all clear

since then i have come off the pill and am waiting for my periods to return as it has now been at least 6 weeks.

I now find myself extremely broody and really want another baby, and i don't really have anyone to talk to about it and find myself in a real dilemma!

any advice would be very welcomed

thank you!:\?

Baby Boom · Oct 29, 2007 6:12PM

Hey,
welcome to our 'gang'.
Wow a vasectomy, well i'd of thought that ur broody-ness is wantin what u cant have, pill withdrawal and baby growin up!
If you really wanted another child you could adopt, but i guess u and ur oh came to this decision together and thought hard about it
sorry my thoughts arent much help.

aidanpaige · Oct 29, 2007 6:15PM

thanks sweetangelemma

HelenNic · Oct 29, 2007 6:15PM

Hi
Sorry I havn't really got any advice but I just wanted to say hello.
Is there a chance that it hasn't worked if he hasn't been given the all clear? Can you not talk to OH about it?

Take Care
Helen x x

aidanpaige · Oct 29, 2007 6:18PM

OH's answer seems to consist solely of well its too l8 now and there is no way on earth he would ever have a reversal, maybe its this pill withdrawal thing (not that i know much about it)

any advice please???

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