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so angry with myself and oh!
Morning girls im just having a rant really trying to clear my head and i have no one else to talk to as we havent told anybody we are ttc again!Anyway my af it due on sunday and i stupidly tested this morning (y do i always do it early??)and got a bfn again .But i cant help but blame my oh . We did bd twice but i wanted to do it more to make sure we cover the right dates but he said he was to tired!wtf .So now ive got a bfn i feel its his fault ,i no its not but if we did bd more maybe we could of have got a bfp.And it also makes me wonder it he really wants another baby. He says he does but never talks about it ,its always me that talks about having a baby ect and he just seems to say yes to me ,If i go and look at baby things he goes and looks at other stuff and just doesnt seem intrested. I dont want to pressure him into it what do you girls think any advice would be greatful .Im so upset and crying as im writing this i defo think af is on her way
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i hope u do get ur bfp, but even if u dont, try not to look back and think what u could of done, try and think forward and how you will change it this month? maybe tell hubby u wanna bd every other day for the whole month, so then he wil be geared up for it, and no what days he has to be 'awake' lol. im feeling pretty down this month too, so ur not alone hunni. hugs xxxxx
men just DON'T get how hard it is for us women do the!!!! mrs*me* sounds spot on with her answer about men. wish men could be in our shoes and do all we have to do ie opk, hpk the lot, then the would be more thoughtful!!!!!!
my hubbie even said to me last night "what's the big rush to have another" even though HE said we should try again!!!!! And last night TMI i had to Persuade him to BD with me. i really felt like choking him!!!!!!! MEN
sorry rant over
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chaxxx
chaxx
As the other ladies on here have said men just dont get it and I dont think they ever will tbh....to them we are just impatient and drama queens....like mrs*me* said try not to look back but to the future and what will happen xxxxx
Lol cha i hope your oh back holds out for you You dont want to be making any hospital vist in the middle of the night and having to explian whats happened!!
could u imagine going to A&E what would u say, i'd be soooo embrassed but i would prob make up something. oh the thoughts have me going red in the face already.
hopefully u won't need to pounce on him next month, u might have a shy bean (fingers crossed) but if u do have too, get him good ha ha
chaxxx