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Trying for a year and still nothing...
Me and my hubby have been trying for just over a year now... and still nothing has happened.
I have been to hospital to be tested for a std but nothing...
Im young, healthy and very confused as to why its not happening.
You get these idiots that get pregnant straight away that dont even want a baby! but the couples that geniunly want a baby have trouble!!!!! Please any sugestions? x:\?
I have been to hospital to be tested for a std but nothing...
Im young, healthy and very confused as to why its not happening.
You get these idiots that get pregnant straight away that dont even want a baby! but the couples that geniunly want a baby have trouble!!!!! Please any sugestions? x:\?
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Hilary x
[Modified by: Roxy_dan on October 04, 2007 03:27 PM]
Good Luck
Hilary x
When we were trying my doctor said that the best way to increase your chances of conceiving is to have sex every 3rd day from your period ends til your period begins or is late. She said that having it anymore often can mean the sperm is lower quality & therefore can decrease your chances but every 3rd day means the sperm has time to recover & is stronger. This way you'll always have sperm in your system.
Good Luck
Hilary x
That must be so hard for you. I can't imagine it taking that long - I get upset after three months, so my heart goes out to you. If I were you I'd go to your GP. I went to have a chat with mine before we started TTC and she said if nothing happens in a year to come back. It could be something so simple that you just need to know about and it might make you feel better about it. Chin up hun and best of luck.
Rach x
From my experience there is no embarrassment on this site and never too much info so get it out there!!
leyla 39+1
Laughing could contribute to it leaking or coughing as it flexes your muscles down there (if you get my meaning!)
Or maybe theres just so much of it, a little leaks out naturally...lol! But seriously I'm sure staying laying down after with your bum on a pillow sounds like a good plan - or have seen on the tv women put their legs up against a wall! But then I'm not pg - as not ttc yet til get next a/f so feel free not to take my advice...lol!!!!
On another thread there has been talk of reflexology - have you thought about anything like that - or having something to relax and take your mind off it - I've heard people on here have indian head massage and insist that it helped them get pregnant - just a thought!
Good luck and hope you get your BFP soon! Sending you lots of baby dust!
XXXXXX
Its been nearly 7 months for us!! Im only 25 ans we got married last year in april.
several people have told me lately that the 'every other day' plan works...one of them is due in Dec!!!
Its because it takes 48 hours for the sperm to mature and its mature sperm we need...been sticking to it this month and am due on 17th...but hopefully not ...xxxx
Roxy-dan i think the only other thing I would suggest re your leaking problem is make sure he comes quite deep inside you - so no shallow positions! And maybe try the legs in the air trick after that... I'm not resorting to that yet but i've again heard stories from women who swear by it!!
Don't know if this is too much info but if you put your legs right back so that your knees are around your ears (when you are on your back) during the last part of BDing then he withdraws straight away after coming and you stay like that for a minute or too, that helps prevent leaks.
What an elegant image that is.
Your Doctor will start testing and looking into it after you've been trying for a year Roxy so I think that's the best thing to do. xxx