So generally in the run up to my period I don't feel anything in terms of hormones, no pains, anything. I've always been extremely fortunate (my poor sisters suffer terribly). So this last week (due at the weekend), I have had terrible headaches and weird kind of muscle pains. But I'm scared to let myself think oh wow, has something happened as obviously I know our brains are very good at tricking us when we want something ... so what to do? I haven't had any kind of implantation bleeding or anything like that, just strange tummy aches and headaches. We have only really been TTC the last 3 weeks or so so I almost feel silly asking. ?