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hi, ttc baby#4
hi,
me & DH hopping fr baby #4 (&possibly pink) we hav three DSs
ive only stopped cerazette oct been on it 14mths wit reg periods. . b bn nosing (which didnt help lol) online n looks like gona be a while b4 BFP
so much fr doc sayn ya only hav to miss one pill n get PG ??
is ther a lucky thread fo testn BFPs?
best of luck to all ttc
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Hi tinks im currently ttc no 4 and hopefully a blue one as we have 3d's. Really hope it doesn't take long for your cycles to get back to normal x
(Send baby dust*)
Thank you. I would love a boy but don't really mind what we have as long as he/she is healthy plus im not sure I would know how to change a boy nappy lol
Are you using opk's or temping? When is your af due? Im about 1dpo so just entering into the dreaded 2ww x
I'm not charting or anything just going by ovulation calender with 28 day cycle! Last menses was 13.10.
We have 1 dd and 2 ds's hoping for another dd!! This is our third month so fingers crossed this is our month! I'm only 3dpo (I think) going by my ovulation calender!! I've got a bit of a wait yet until I can start testing!
My bbs are super sore and heavy which have been like it since a week after af finished which is unusual for me! I Usually get sore bbs the day before O day so I'm not really sure wots going on! I also feel crampy, tired and cervix is high soft and closed with wet cm!
I really hate this tww!! Lol
Hi shrimposgirl your symptoms sound really positive. When do you think that you will test?
Do either you expect any negative comments when you do get your bfp? I know my friends and family will be really excited and pleased for us but I know that someone people see 4 kids as a lot. When my friend was pregnant with her 4th she got a lot of negative comments from people she didn't know like shop assistant's x
Hi shrimpogirl, sounds good fingerscrossed fr ya.. My boobys bn sore was first sign was pg. Yes in 2ww too test 9thNov but stayn positive in hope will help, going wit flow n boys keepn me busy.. No sticks ect yet lol just chartn on app. Hav never used ov sticks..as fell pg quickishly wit all, but kinda knw this time it'll b awhile as lot probs after 3rd ds. Hi Ilovemygirls, no I'm not worried bit havin 4,(both frm big familys) all friends family hav us pestered fr another baba frm last one arrived oh n that it's to b a girl- I honestly wud love 4sons but knw dh wud love a wee lady as this is to be last baba* (note we said that after no2??lol)
best wishes girls x
I'm not really sure my husbands parents will be very happy to start with but it's our choice and I know 4 children is a lot and a lot of people do have a lot of negative comments with 4 children but who cares!! Lol
Anyhow I have just tested and got a very very faint positive (I think) I wish I could post it here so u could take a look!! I am really confused because according to my ovulation app it was supposed to be 3 days ago on the 27th!! And it would be impossible to get a bfp this early! Either I ovulated super early or I have got a false positive if that is even possible!! My bbs have been hurting for 6 days now that's why I have taken the test and plus I got a huge amount of tests sat in my cupboard so I thought why not!
We also said no more after no3 lol and even tried to be sterilised but docs said no! Pretty glad they did now!
I hope this is a good month for us! X
Shrimposgirl Omg thats amazing news, have you tested again? You may have ovulated earlier this cycle.
Tinks me and hubby are also from big families so having just 1 was never an option. We are all in the 2ww together, would be lovely to all be in the due In forum as well.
We said we would stop at no 2 but here we are ttc no 4 lol I wonder how many we all end up with? I love being pregnant, newborns and watching my girls all playing together x
Hi ladies
We are going to see what happens fc we get No 4 we have 2 ds 1 dd i came off cerazette & had a period after a week & a half with my youngest who is 1 i came off it had a period after a month & fell pregnant the next month which was a total shock as had always taken a while b4.
I am worried about the negative comments but i also don't want to look back & wish i had & didn't because of other people yes it will be hard but its hard however many u have u just ajust the more u have
Good luck everyone
Billie x
Omg shrimpogirl hope it's a sticky one did u test again?
I'm resisting testin tink wait till sat, bn gettin really bad heartburn ????????
Hi billy, I didn't find much of a difference going from 2 -3. Your already so used to being busy that you just adapt.
Tinks good luck testing at the weekend.
Shrimpogirl did you test again?
Im 6dpo so getting there slowly. 2 of my girls have had chicken poxs this last week so that has kept me busy and my mind off ttc x
I totally agree ladies at the end of the day it's our lives & up to us how many we have i don't expect anyone else to look after them.
Wow ilovemygirls bet that wasn't much fun both having chicken pox, none of mine have had it & my oldest is 7.
How old are everyone else's lo's just being nosey mine are my ds Oakley is 7 (8 in Dec) dd Mika is 2 (3 in Dec) & ds Bailey was one last month.
Hope we see some bfp's soon for anyone near testing
Billie x
My boys r 8,3&2
Eh tested early this mornin n got negivtive on cheap test strip so gona hold out to sun if witch don't come first
Tinks fingers crossed that you tested too early.
Billie dd1 is 3 (4 on monday) dd2 is 2 ( 3 on the 20th ) and dd3 is 9 months. I have my hands full but love it x
Wow u do have your hands full but i think when u have more than 1 it doesn't make much difference then they play together which is nice to see.
Tthe main reasons i have leftit till a year after Bailey was 1 wasn't ready & 2 would be my 4th c-sec so need at least a year between now i feel ready scared but ready also need to get a move on as age wise don't want to leave any longer my dd starts pre school in Jan 2.5 days a week does 1 morning at mo so will be easier with school runs etc
good luck Tinks your still in with a shout hun xx
I love having a year between dd1 and 2, they Play so well together And love each other so much. Thats why we have started to ttc again because I want dd3 to have the same relationship with a sibling of similar age.
Hi Mrssmith3
Welcome to our little group lol your body can take a while to get back to normal after bf how old is your youngest hope it sorts its self out soon i've only had 1 cycle so not sure how/when next one will be
We can all be mad & exchange stories of the shock horror people say when we all get our bfp's
Billie xx
The youngest is 16 months and I bf for almost 13 months so it makes sense that things need to settle. Using opk this month and that is only increasing the anxiety.
Love the idea of a big family and I feel as blessed as I am we are not quite complete yet!