OH is struggling to finish...

B00113086 · Oct 13, 2019 8:15AM

Hey guys I wonder if anyone can help me or have had the same issue, we've been trying for nearly a year with no success, recently my OH has been struggling to finish, I think he's feeling the pressure a bit too much. We've said we'll leave it this month and see what happens, is there anything else we can do has anyone else had the same issue?

MadDoda · Oct 13, 2019 8:23AM

I never had this problem even after 8months, but men are fragile if I may suggest to not tell him a word about where is cycle u are and if u are ovulating or not, Just seduce him randomly during whole cycle with focus on ovulation, when u take his mind of it, it may help. But a month break is definitely a good idea for starters.

Latte96 · Oct 13, 2019 8:57AM

Sexy underwear and seduction could help. And yes, just don’t mention the cycle day. X

EmJ3 · Oct 13, 2019 9:05AM

Definitely keep ovulation to yourself! It becomes just about a baby and I suppose in the moment, that’s not sexy!!! Try to emphasise that it’s just for fun for a while and I’m sure he’ll relax and it will happen!
baby dust to you.xxxx

B00113086 · Oct 13, 2019 7:01PM

Thanks guys, he doesn't really understand the cycles like he gets there's a bit where I'm more likely to get pregnant but that's about all.

I guess I'm just worried especially with it happening more often now. I just want him to relax, I think the fact that we've increased the how often it's happening might have had an impact too as we were never ones to have loads before...

Hopefully it'll sort itself out with a wee month off of trying.

OH is struggling to finish...

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