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Pregnant after miscarriage, when to tell husband
Hi All,
Last year, my husband and I had a baby but lost it around week 6. We wanted the baby so much and got really heart broken. Yesterday I did a pregnancy test and got a positive. I was excited for 5 seconds and then got anxious immediately. The sad memories are still fresh, and I am not confident that this time it will be different. I know I will not tell families and friends until 4-5 months. But I am not sure when to tell my husband. The reason is I know he would probably react the way I reacted, happy but scared. I kinda want to wait til after first doctor appointment to make sure it is not a chemical and the baby has a heartbeat, so in case things don’t go well my husband doesn’t have to experience all the joy and then desperation. Anyone has similar experience can give me advice? I really appreciate your help!
Last year, my husband and I had a baby but lost it around week 6. We wanted the baby so much and got really heart broken. Yesterday I did a pregnancy test and got a positive. I was excited for 5 seconds and then got anxious immediately. The sad memories are still fresh, and I am not confident that this time it will be different. I know I will not tell families and friends until 4-5 months. But I am not sure when to tell my husband. The reason is I know he would probably react the way I reacted, happy but scared. I kinda want to wait til after first doctor appointment to make sure it is not a chemical and the baby has a heartbeat, so in case things don’t go well my husband doesn’t have to experience all the joy and then desperation. Anyone has similar experience can give me advice? I really appreciate your help!
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Good luck to you I hope it's a happy outcome this time 😊