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this sucks!
summer_76
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How much can you cry? We waited so long for this only for it to be taken away. I now have to spend 2 days with 2 dead babies inside me - how cruel can it get.
Cannot believe this is happening again Sarah
Cannot believe this is happening again Sarah
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Im here to chat if you need to get some more off your chest.
xx
sim 75 - had scan on friday and their hearts had both stopped. The week before they were doing ok especially number one and they had nearly doubled in size. I am having a d & c (ERPwhatever) tomorrow. Havent slept for two days a just feel so empty.
The next few weeks will be pretty tough on you but, in time, you will be able to lift your head again. You will go in phases, like many of us have. Try to just take each day one step at a time and try not to put any expectations on yourself. Just be as you will be. There are no rules, there are no right or wrong in the way you think, feel or act.
We are all here to help you on this difficult journey. Don't be scared about going in for the erpc. I felt some kind of relief afterwards although I was very very upset. You will need to take it easy this week so I hope you aren't going back to work if you work. You need time out emotionally and physically and only you can decide when you are ready to be around other people again.
Being on this forum and the mc/etopic support forum helped me to no end the past 2 months. There is a lot of love and support here and you will find comfort in that.
Lots of love and cuddles xxx