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Any lawyer out there?
in Baby
I'm hoping 1 or 2 of you might be lawyers or have a knowledge of the British law!
My dad died 15 months ago, he and his wife were both alcoholics and when he died it came to light that they owed around ??100000 in total to several different creditors!
The house was repossessed due to many mortgage payment having been missed and several creditors wrote off the debt as a gesture of goodwill! This still left about ??60000 of debt owing!
My husband and I paid for the funeral which cost just over ??3000 as my dads wife just stated she couldn't afford to pay and did nothing to try and organise the funeral!
We have not spoken or seen her since!
Today I received a call from a debt collection agency asking if we knew where my dads wife is as she has missed several court dates in regard to the debt and is avoiding all contact! I told them that we had no contact but gave a rough idea of where I thought she might be and also that she was now living in a council flat so couldn't be that hard to track down!
I was told that if they cannot find her the debt will fall to the deceased's children who will have to pay it! Surely this can't be right?
I'm panicking a bit as I'm sure my dads wife could go unnoticed especially if she knows people are looking for her for debt recovery! My husband and I are doing ok financially but are by no means well off, we've worked hard for what we have, my brother and his wife struggle financially and my younger brother is only 21!
I was always under the impression all debts are my dads wife responsibility especially asthey were all accumulated in the years they were together!
Can anyone help me?
Becky
Xxx
My dad died 15 months ago, he and his wife were both alcoholics and when he died it came to light that they owed around ??100000 in total to several different creditors!
The house was repossessed due to many mortgage payment having been missed and several creditors wrote off the debt as a gesture of goodwill! This still left about ??60000 of debt owing!
My husband and I paid for the funeral which cost just over ??3000 as my dads wife just stated she couldn't afford to pay and did nothing to try and organise the funeral!
We have not spoken or seen her since!
Today I received a call from a debt collection agency asking if we knew where my dads wife is as she has missed several court dates in regard to the debt and is avoiding all contact! I told them that we had no contact but gave a rough idea of where I thought she might be and also that she was now living in a council flat so couldn't be that hard to track down!
I was told that if they cannot find her the debt will fall to the deceased's children who will have to pay it! Surely this can't be right?
I'm panicking a bit as I'm sure my dads wife could go unnoticed especially if she knows people are looking for her for debt recovery! My husband and I are doing ok financially but are by no means well off, we've worked hard for what we have, my brother and his wife struggle financially and my younger brother is only 21!
I was always under the impression all debts are my dads wife responsibility especially asthey were all accumulated in the years they were together!
Can anyone help me?
Becky
Xxx
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Hope this provides some reassurance. The debt collection agency will be trying their luck and you may have to field some annoying calls & junk mail (if they manage to get your address) but just ignore them.
If it becomes too much, go to your local Citizen's Advice and they will be able to contact the said agency and stop them hassling you.
Good luck & sorry for your loss xx
I don't have any joint loans etc with my dad and received no assists or gifts prior to him dying!
It sounds like the debt recovery agency are just trying it on, it's such a worry especially as I have no idea how they got my number!
I'll speak to them again on Monday and if needs be speak to citizens advice!
thanks again!
Becky
Xxx