Forum home Babies Baby
🚨 Advance warning 🚨 This forum will be closing on 1st May – please see our pinned thread for more information.
Options

Fussy eater

Hi ladies,

I've posted in toddler but I know it can be a bit quieter in there so I'm hoping that one of you guys can help.



My youngest son is now 16 months and has always been a great eater. I mean that kid would seriously eat anything you'd put in front of him and eat with gusto. Now though I can't get him to eat his meals. He'll always happily eat his breakfast but he won't touch his lunch or dinner. I think it started when he was feeling a bit rubbish with teething. He just looks at the spoon and shakes his head. I try feeding him myself, I try finger food, I try letting him feed himself but he just won't eat! The only things he'll eat are bananas, maybe some other types of fruit but not always, dried fruit, porridge or weetabix, yogurt, and sometimes toast. I cook every meal from scratch (well, more or less!) and as well as worrying about him turning into a 'freaky eater' and worrying about his nutrition and health, I'm getting stressed out at spending so much time preparing meals that just get ignored. Incidentally I've tried ready meals and he's no keener to try them.

Sorry about the essay. I just don't know how to handle this. Apart from the odd, very brief phrase, I never had such bother with his big brother.

Any tips/advice?

Replies

  • Options
    My mum had this issue with my little brother. She used some reverse physcology on my brother. She made a big plate of food - finger food and mushy food - and bought it into the living room when me and my brother were playing. My brother initially started to complain when he saw the plate so my mum ignored him and sat next to me and offered me some. I started eating a cheese on toast finger and so did my mum. My dad then came over and started eating from the plate too. Charlie watched us all eat for a while and then, because it wasnt about him anymore, decided to take something off the plate. Everyone ignored him as he ate. My mum always inists it worked because he liked the attention that she gave him because he refused to eat and by ignoring the behaviour she broke the cycle. Its funny because I can still remember sitting there eating cheese on toast! Dont know if it will work for youe little one but thought I would share x
  • Options
    Thank you. It's certainly worth a try!
Sign In or Register to comment.

Featured Discussions