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WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM!!!!
Im so so so pissed off my oh is driving me mad. We had sex about a week ago and since then i have caught a really bad cold which i still have really bad and im trying to look after our daughter who is teething so is waking several times during the night which im having to get up to. I feel like crap and he has the nerve to have a go at me cause i dont want sex!!!!! i have no energy whats so having. he says we should just have a friend relationship cause we r not having sex. WE ONLY DID IT A WEEK AGO for fuck sake and i have a cold and looking after lo 24 7, i just want to screammmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Thanks 4 letting me rant.
Thanks 4 letting me rant.
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Why can't he just be sympathetic - get you a nice bar of choc, look after LO for a while so you can have a bath and glass of wine, and go and do some man-DIY (if you know what i mean!!) to get rid of his urges??? Would it help if you suggested that? (Somehow i think the answer will be no!)
He'll just have to get over it cos right now you need to look after yourself and LO.
Take care )
So, i just hope he grows up a bit very soon for your sake. You deserve a medal at the mo x
Men are insensitive gits when it comes to them not getting what they want!
[Modified by: Matthew1978 on September 30, 2007 04:19 PM]
It sounds like you are working very hard, there is nothing wrong with a child attending nursery i agree in an ideal world a stay at home mum is what most of us would want to be but in todays society this is not always what happens.
Sit and talk to your wife and share your feelings. Can you get a babysitter time out to be a couple and not just mum and dad even though your baby is loved so much do not forget that your relationship needs love and attention too...
If you are too tierd for sex a cuddle and kiss can show affection leave the garden the house and have a lazy day we have one lazy Sunday a month the house is left sometimes we spend the day in our lounge wear the kids do not get dressed we spend the day playing games, watching a film and spending quality time as a family, dinner is whatever we fancy usually a takeaway...
I hope you can sort this out
Karla hope youfeel better soon and that you can sort this out with your oh...
I would love to live in a show home it is just not possible with children i am afraid....
He needs to stop nagging and then maybe sex may be more spontanious (sp)...