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Just cried all the way home. . .
I know I am being silly - but my friend told me she was pregnant today. She had unprotected sex once and wasn't trying or anything. DOn't get me wrong I am genuinely happy for her and she is going to make a wonderful mum but it just doesn't seem fair
I am 9dpo now - don't feel like we have done it this month at all. HOwever, my friend had no symptoms at all!
I guess I am jsut being selfish and miserable
Sorry for my moan girlies - i don't like doing it I just needed to get it off my chest cos my friend has kinda sworn me to secrecy so I can't really tell anyone else about it = cos they would guess quite easily who it is.
I am 9dpo now - don't feel like we have done it this month at all. HOwever, my friend had no symptoms at all!
I guess I am jsut being selfish and miserable
Sorry for my moan girlies - i don't like doing it I just needed to get it off my chest cos my friend has kinda sworn me to secrecy so I can't really tell anyone else about it = cos they would guess quite easily who it is.
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Sorry to here you feeling down.
Don't worry about how you feel, I think we all get a little like that sometimes. It's natural when you are trying and it feels like everyone else is whilst we're waiting patiently.
Have a good cry and pamper yourself this evening and lots and lots of baby dust to you xxx
Neither of us knew the other was trying so it was all a little awkward!
We cant control our emotions sometimes & you should never apologise for that
Chin up...it will happen to us one day, we just have to be positive! xx
I'll get over it - although dunno how ill feel if i am not pg by time she gets her bump it's what i have dreamed of for sooo long.
Thanks again
its good news that she had no symptoms though - no need to give up on this month yet! xx
Two nights ago i had a dream that my friend came back from her two week holiday and told me she was pg and it felt so real. I was gutted. It was one of those dreams where you wake up and breathe a hugh sigh of relief that it was only a dream. And i am only in the planning stages!
I have noticed on here, a lot of the ladies get their BFP's in the months that they feel like it's not happened so good luck for when you test!
I know exactly how you feel, I had pretty much the same news yesterday. As soon as I found out I burst into tears and was miserable for most of the evening.
Totally agree with you, it's not fair and it sucks. I won't do the whole 'our time will come' thing because if you're anything like me it won't make you feel better. But you are by no means alone in how you're feeling!
Chin up!
Same thing happened to me last month and I felt exactly the same way you did hun its just a natural reaction, your really happy for your friend but gutted its not you but our time will come.
xx
Totally normal feeling!!!!
I try not to think about what's 'fair' - I know we would be able to offer so much to our LO and on both sides of the family everyone is so close - our families would be over the moon, supportive and I don't mean this in any snobby or snotty way at all because that's not who I am - and we will not be the kind of parents that spoil their child(ren) to the extent that they get away with everythin and turn it to little monsters - but... - we are able to provide so much - our LO would not have to go without - yet for some reason - some one out there has chosen not to bless us?
Feeling like the great impregnable woman at the moment.
Feeling like the great impregnable woman at the moment.