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what would you do?
Hi ladies!
I'm getting married October 10th and would love to be pregnant on the day but don't want to be too far on because i'd have to mess around changing dresses because the one i'm having wouldn't suit a bump. Anyway. I'm on the depo jab at the moment and was wondering whether to miss my next one (due March) or wait and miss the one after (due june) I want to give us time to concieve and i know it can take a while for your body to get back into a normal cycle after being on contraception so i'm torn on which one to miss? I could miss the March one and get caught quite soon but then i'd have to change bits for the wedding or do you think from June until then will give us enough time? Sorry, i know it sounds petty but i'd really love to concieve another baby this year but can't settle on a time to start trying?
Any advice would be great! )
xxx
I'm getting married October 10th and would love to be pregnant on the day but don't want to be too far on because i'd have to mess around changing dresses because the one i'm having wouldn't suit a bump. Anyway. I'm on the depo jab at the moment and was wondering whether to miss my next one (due March) or wait and miss the one after (due june) I want to give us time to concieve and i know it can take a while for your body to get back into a normal cycle after being on contraception so i'm torn on which one to miss? I could miss the March one and get caught quite soon but then i'd have to change bits for the wedding or do you think from June until then will give us enough time? Sorry, i know it sounds petty but i'd really love to concieve another baby this year but can't settle on a time to start trying?
Any advice would be great! )
xxx
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Firstly, I would'nt want a huge bump in my dress lol!
secondly, I would'nt want a baby in the middle of winter, march equals Dec baby. I know this might seem silly to some people but I'd rather not have a Dec baby, xmas is chaotic enough as it is!! From June onwards you are looking at a march baby at least, lovely time of year to have a new baby.
we are getting married in July (well supposed to be) I keep worrying if we should put it back a year or two, lol! But we are trying fro another baby in July 10 for a spring/summer baby (with any luck).
You could always come off the injection in March and then 'be careful' until you are ready to try? I know the depo can take a while to leave your system sometimes. Good luck x x xx
[Modified by: Sugar 'n' Spice on January 25, 2010 02:50 PM]
thank you again xx
I came off of depo two years ago and still get messed up.
The last injection i had was in Jan, no period until August and then i had it for two months.
I had to get tablets to stop AF!!!
From there i had a couple of really sore AF's. I still miss AF's every so often.
I just wanted you to know what happened to me, so that if this is what will happen to you-you have plans and you can still get what you want, i personally wish i came off of it ages ago.
Good luck (P.S. thats the best month to have a wedding-hehehe, can you guess when mine was?!!!)
[Modified by: mrsallen08 on January 27, 2010 08:43 AM]
[Modified by: mrsallen08 on January 27, 2010 08:42 AM]
[Modified by: mrsallen08 on January 27, 2010 08:42 AM]
Homefairy - I'm guessing you got married in October too ;\) lol
xxx