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Help, a little advice please ladies?
My little sister has just announced that she's pg with her THIRD baby. She's only 22 and the father is a complete waste of space (he's also the father of the other two).
I want so much to be happy for her but I can't shake the feeling that shes' making a huge mistake since she was talking about leaving him at christmas, that on top of the fact that hubby and I have just started TTC and ok, maybe I'm a little jealous, but now I feel like if we carry on now and fall pg people may think it's just to compete, or take the shine off my sis.
What do i say to her? I really want to be happy for her but I'm struggling to find the words. I haven't actually spoken to her yet. my dad told me.
I want so much to be happy for her but I can't shake the feeling that shes' making a huge mistake since she was talking about leaving him at christmas, that on top of the fact that hubby and I have just started TTC and ok, maybe I'm a little jealous, but now I feel like if we carry on now and fall pg people may think it's just to compete, or take the shine off my sis.
What do i say to her? I really want to be happy for her but I'm struggling to find the words. I haven't actually spoken to her yet. my dad told me.
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I have two kiddies to a previous marriage myself, so I know just how hard it is to be bringing up children in a rocky relationship and i'm just so scared right now that my li'l sister is making the same mistake I made.