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i could really do with some support ladies
im sorry to trouble you all i could just really do with someone to talk to.
i hate to complain all the time but you ladies are all i have to turn to apart from OH and sometimes i dont think he gets it.
last few days havnt been good for me, on monday my mate who began ttc when we did had her baby and she knew we were trying, and today another friend did, really gets me down and i try my hardest not to let it. then two people who i work with brought their 5 week old babies in to work at the same time and i found it really difficult to deal with and so i said hi and then avoided them which made me feel worse.
i dont want to feel like this i hate it soooo much and want it to go away, i just need to get over things and move on. cant ttc this month due to tests i am having and i am trying to convince myself it will do me good but its not working to well!
how have other people coped?
i no my OH will want to go and see our friends baby and he will be dissapointed if i dont go and i will feel guilty but i just no i wont be able to go without leaving broken hearted. what am i going to do with myself!!?? i am a mess!!
xxxx
i hate to complain all the time but you ladies are all i have to turn to apart from OH and sometimes i dont think he gets it.
last few days havnt been good for me, on monday my mate who began ttc when we did had her baby and she knew we were trying, and today another friend did, really gets me down and i try my hardest not to let it. then two people who i work with brought their 5 week old babies in to work at the same time and i found it really difficult to deal with and so i said hi and then avoided them which made me feel worse.
i dont want to feel like this i hate it soooo much and want it to go away, i just need to get over things and move on. cant ttc this month due to tests i am having and i am trying to convince myself it will do me good but its not working to well!
how have other people coped?
i no my OH will want to go and see our friends baby and he will be dissapointed if i dont go and i will feel guilty but i just no i wont be able to go without leaving broken hearted. what am i going to do with myself!!?? i am a mess!!
xxxx
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it just an awful feeling and in a way it makes me wish we never began ttc just so i would never have felt like this.
xxxx
Please don't think you can't have children. Medical treatments are so advanced today that even should there be a major problem there's probably interventions that can be put in place to significantly reduce the risks of further mc's!
However, you haven't had your results back yet so there's no use in worrying, although i'm sure that's easier said than done!
I think you're due some good news and i can't wait to hear it!
Lots of love hun!
xx