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Irritated by peoples comments
O.k 'm 41 weeks today & as if i'm not fed up enough EVERYONE & they're granny is commenting on my state.
The woman in the post office said 'that's the biggest bump i've ever seen' then 10 mins later the woman in the Co-op asked my MIL if 'she is having twins?'
SHE clearly being the cats mother.
I felt like saying 'yes I am having twins, whats your excuse for being a big fat moose?'
I don't wish to leave the house anymore
The woman in the post office said 'that's the biggest bump i've ever seen' then 10 mins later the woman in the Co-op asked my MIL if 'she is having twins?'
SHE clearly being the cats mother.
I felt like saying 'yes I am having twins, whats your excuse for being a big fat moose?'
I don't wish to leave the house anymore
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big hugs hun xxx
why do people keep saying stupid bloody things?
oh and the best yet is from mil!! saw her a few weeks back and she says "ooh not long now" so I reply nope 3 weeks to go! she then says " you'll have her sooner than that cause you look rough" erm thanks!!!
then when I saw her last week she tells me how fed up I am and how I can't wait for baby to come now, to which I say no I'm feeling pretty good actually and still have a while till due date. so she says "oh well that's because your scared!!"???
erm again nope I'm looking forward to trying for a vbac (which she bloody knows) so then she says "well I think your gonna go over with her, and not by a few days either, the whole 2 weeks!!"
well I was gobsmacked! why do people know you and your body/baby better than you all of a sudden??!!!
we really need some witty comebacks ladies!!! think think think!!!
I was getting the comments on how big I was & how I'd have him early (I did but only 6 days!) & it drove me bananas!!
Gracie is 2 weeks now but yesterday I went into uni for a lecture and got told by someone in the class that I looked very tired... yeah thanks for that! I mean I know i look rough but I dont need reminding lol
Just ignore them! (easier said than done, I know!)
xxxxx
Hubby got annoyed with people at his work asking if there was any news, as obviously if there had been any news then he wouldn't have been at work.
I also got annoyed with people saying that the baby would come when he or she was ready. I was induced in the end so actually, Harry didn't come when he was ready, he came when the midwives told him it was time to come out!
Hope you don't have to wait too much longer though
I think everyone was walking on eggshells last week cos I was prone to bursting into tears but I was jut stressed at the thought of him coming & me missing Lilys party I think which is why I got so stressed& wanted him to come BEFORE. I guess him coming a good bit after had never entered my head!
I also think it's funny that everyones 'predicitions' have come & gone & now they all look quite silly (me included!). This babba is determined to do things HIS way!