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Who are you having at the birth?
I just can't decide who I want to be with me at the birth. :?
Of course I want my husband there, but can't decide if I want my mum to be there too. I am an only child and really close to my Mum, so I think I probably want her there - especially if I have a hard time Mum's are good at comforting! And they have been there themselves.
But then another part of me thinks it should just be me and hubby as we did this together and it will be nice to be a three - our new family!
What are you ladies all doing?
Of course I want my husband there, but can't decide if I want my mum to be there too. I am an only child and really close to my Mum, so I think I probably want her there - especially if I have a hard time Mum's are good at comforting! And they have been there themselves.
But then another part of me thinks it should just be me and hubby as we did this together and it will be nice to be a three - our new family!
What are you ladies all doing?
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I think like you it will all be about timing - my mum lives quite far away and is planning on taking some holiday so she can come up to me around my due date, but who knows when baby will arrive!
I think I'm gonna have my mum with me and hubby. As great as hubster is, he's a bit of a panicer and I think he'd quite like someone else there to help him!!
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Had I not put my Mum down in the birth plan it would have been a lot harder to get her in with me so even if you don't think you want them it doesn't do any harm to write them down just incase!!