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Ok am i a total cow...
Hey girls need a bit of a rant as oh isnt here and have sent him a email but it cud take a while for his response!!! Well my sister in law has just had her implant out...yup the same one i had out 6 months ago now!! Anyways shes told everyone shes ttc (were keeping it a secret...) and i just know shes guna get pg b4 me sods law...and its bound to look like we have copied and jumped on the band wagon....now this wouldnt bother me normally its just she can b really weird and competitive and i dont like it...and am really worried shes guna ruin things,,,we where so excited about keeping things secret but feel when we announce it shes bound to try to take the shine away for us...i know u may think shut up and get on with it, just was so excited about things and feel rubbish...even if we get pg the same time i know the pregnancy will be compared all the way through!!! aaarrrggghhh!!!!
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baby dust to you
dont hate me
Anyway she may not catch and then she'll have to keep explaining why not to everyone...
Tonnes of babydust to you and Mr Woo xxxxxxxxxx
As long as you relax and enjoy your bd then hopefully you'll pip her to the post....the best thing would be not to tell anyone till your really far gone n it would be great if in that time she announced she was 6 weeks pg and you came back with 'well am 16 weeks pg!' lol imagine her face..........
oops sorry little evil of me!
tonnes of baby dust your way
emma
You're allowed to rant! don't worry I'm sure it will take a while for her too!
Chin up hun!
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I really hope you get a BFP this month more than ever now just to cheer you up! Its so hard dealing with people you know getting pregnat when you are trying, especially stupid people lol try not to get too bothered by her and fingers crossed she is trying for a while!
That sounds so horrible lol
charlie x 20+6
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She may find it hard to get pregnant and may need support, so you could be there to support and help her. Obviously you may have deeper issues with your sister in law and maybe your relationship isn't good, but couldn't this be a bonding thing? Have you considered confiding in her and your brother that you have been trying too and maybe build bridges through this shared experience, or are you just not that good friends?