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Sex & pregnancy just don't mix!
Does anyone else think that sex & pregnancy just doesn't work???
1. You feel crap and tired all the time and don't feel like it much anyway.
2. I seem to have got a lot 'tighter' since being pregnant & it's damn uncomfortable sometimes, despite using lube lol.
3. It's painful - the other day I got shooting pains and today I felt so 'compressed', lol that I was doubled up with cramps afterwards. Grrrr.
Is this all normal? It's very worrying and inconvienient! lol! I'm 21 weeks on mon!
What I don't get is how I heard sex was so much better when pregnant? Not for me. Hope it doesn't go this way when he's born.
1. You feel crap and tired all the time and don't feel like it much anyway.
2. I seem to have got a lot 'tighter' since being pregnant & it's damn uncomfortable sometimes, despite using lube lol.
3. It's painful - the other day I got shooting pains and today I felt so 'compressed', lol that I was doubled up with cramps afterwards. Grrrr.
Is this all normal? It's very worrying and inconvienient! lol! I'm 21 weeks on mon!
What I don't get is how I heard sex was so much better when pregnant? Not for me. Hope it doesn't go this way when he's born.
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i hate sex in pregnancy me and my boyfriend didnt have it from the moment i found out i was pregnant with 1st baby right upto over a month after she was born,
and havent had it since i found out this time to, my sex drive just goes right out the window lol,
xx
I'm 38+5 weeks and we haven't attempted it for about 4 weeks now!
Having said that I am prepared for lots of sex if I go overdue in the hope that it might bring on labour
xxx
It only gets better the further on you get until the last week or two then its a bit difficult but as soon as ive had my lo i was straight back into it, thats maybe how i got myself into this as my lo is 15 weeks on wed and im 11 weeks pg with third lol
vikki xx
love grace and baby girl 26 weeks xxx
Although at first, certain positions were a bit awkward and a little painful as i felt a bit tighter. However, we have found different positions now and I find being on top is alot better (sorry for tmi). I would also say Im more drier than before I was pg. But with natural lube mentioned on a previous thread it hasnt caused much of a problem.
My hubby has loved it recently as hes been getting it every day. My sex drive isnt as high as some on here as hubby isn't too knackered for more! But it definately hasnt decreased!
Hubby also is loving my bigger boobs too!!
Take care and happy new year....xxx
Yeah Laura we are 19 (me) and 21 (him) so I think he thinks we're being really OAP-like too!!!