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As most of you know I had a mmc in feb and have been ttc since.
this last week has been so hard and i've been really struggling with my pma.
Last month we bd'd every other night and it just became a chore and was no fun.
I want our baby to be conceived through making love and not just through a chore.
I've had such a tough week that I think it's best if i leave this site for a wile and try to relax and have more fun.
The nursery door is now closed and although we are still ttc i'm going to back of for a bit and leave nature take it's course.
I'm still heartbroken over the loss of my baby and focusing on ttc is just making me realise how much I lost.
I hope to be back on here with good news before too long.
Good luck to everyone.:\)
xxx
this last week has been so hard and i've been really struggling with my pma.
Last month we bd'd every other night and it just became a chore and was no fun.
I want our baby to be conceived through making love and not just through a chore.
I've had such a tough week that I think it's best if i leave this site for a wile and try to relax and have more fun.
The nursery door is now closed and although we are still ttc i'm going to back of for a bit and leave nature take it's course.
I'm still heartbroken over the loss of my baby and focusing on ttc is just making me realise how much I lost.
I hope to be back on here with good news before too long.
Good luck to everyone.:\)
xxx
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what helps you to cope Emzyv?
After the mc my family were great but now it's as if i shud jus move on and forget everyfin and i can't do dat.
xx
can i have a cry on your shoulder!!
just feeling so sad for the baby i lost and feel as if i'm never going to gt pg agen.
gt pg last time in 1st mnth ttc. i know that i was lucky to gt pg that quick and i was so grateful
i thought u were super fertile after a mc and yet i'm on mnth 3 ttc and still no bfp.
I know i haven't been ttc for long but cos i was pg i'm now even more desperate fr a baby.
one of the girls in work is back off maternity leave next week and i no all she is going to talk about is babies and whos pg!!
just feel like my heart's broken and can't piece it back together at the mo
Had a bad start to the week arguing wit oh and just feel so alone.
xx
I will never forget what i lost. My official due date was the 22nd april.
Anniversary dates are so difficult.
I planted 2 shrubs in my garden to remember my babies by.
I know i never got to see them but they will always be a huge part of my life.
If you don't mind me asking-how far gone wereyou when you lost them?
I bought a ring to remember my lo by and i wear it all the time.
do you feel as if everybody just expects you to get on with things as if nothing has happened.
I did start seeing a councilor but it wasn't much help so i stopped. I suffered from bad depression lst summer and seeing a councilor reminded me of that too much so I left it.
Even though I have my ring to remind me of my baby I still don't feel that Iv'e put things to rest if you know what I mean.
Sorry if I'm rambling just kept my feelings inside for last few weeks.
xx
Everyone told me after a m/c you are really fertile so why is it just not happening ?
Our bodies are just so cruel.
I know keeping your feelings just eats you up inside.
Let me know if you want my email address and maybe we can get each other through this dark lonely tims.
you can send me an e-mail through this site and then i will have your address too
are you on msn?
My email is alanandemma1@tiscali.co.uk