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Hi all,
More or less been given the green light to ttc by OH, and I cant say how much I want to. Have this absolute uncontrolable desire to have a baby but trying to keep it at bay.
Work wise it will be heaps better if I wait to ttc at xmas time - finacially better too but I know what I am like - a ruddy nightmare.
Not sure this website helps, gets me so excited I chose my blimmin push chair yesterday that I would want...........not even preggers!!!
Then you think, well it might take 6 months and starting now is a good idea......but what if i fall in the first month ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh decisions decisions
p.s this forum helps me vent what my OH would roll is eyes at so thanks for reading xx
More or less been given the green light to ttc by OH, and I cant say how much I want to. Have this absolute uncontrolable desire to have a baby but trying to keep it at bay.
Work wise it will be heaps better if I wait to ttc at xmas time - finacially better too but I know what I am like - a ruddy nightmare.
Not sure this website helps, gets me so excited I chose my blimmin push chair yesterday that I would want...........not even preggers!!!
Then you think, well it might take 6 months and starting now is a good idea......but what if i fall in the first month ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh decisions decisions
p.s this forum helps me vent what my OH would roll is eyes at so thanks for reading xx
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I always think to myself if only i had started ttc as soon as i came off the pill maybe i would have caught straight away and we would have found money from somewhere.
As for choosing pushchair i have changed my mind 3 times, even find myself looking at the babys clothes in shops!
This trying for a baby business sends us into baby overdrive i think.
Hope you can decide when to ttc and goodluck when you do.
xxx
once you decide to start ttc thats exactly what happens thats the only reason you go to bed with your oh, but as already mentioned some of the ladies on here get pg sttraight away others takes what feels like an eternity, you never know when it will be your turn so to speak, good luck with everything and your desicions xxx
and make sure you start taking your folic acid asap
my hubby honestly thought that the first time we would have unprotected sex we would get pg and that a baby would be born 9 months later. i think this whole ttc has really opened his eyes up! he told me that he was talking to "the lads" the other day and they were telling him to be relaxed about it, and he said he had been, but when we got pg and mw explained things that could go wrong in any pregnancy he got scared and then since we had mc he says it has really taught him a few things - he didn't know baby making was so difficult bless him!
babydust to all xx
I also come on here to talk about everything that OH would roll his eyes at!! He isn't the most chatty person - bless him xx