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oh god oh god oh god....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi
I am 39 (40 in June) and mum to 5 kids. One DD nearly 18, 3 boys aged 15, 4 and 3. Lastly Amelia born feb 08 > I had a traumatic time with her as had placenta previa and was rushed to hosp with a serious bleed. An emerg c section took place and I was sterilised at the same time!!!
Anyway, I am in a bit of a state. I have that awful taste in my mouth...bloody metallic! its making me feel sickly. I also have the runs ( I always get this in early preg) and I am exhausted,,,,
I am still BF Amelia but my boobs do feel sore (she is biting now she has teeth)
I have been having really heavy periods for about 8 months. I last had on on 30th Dec. This was heavy and painful. We had sex a few times ..the last time about 9 days ago which was prob when I O/V
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me I cannot be.... I just cant.
I could not handle it emotionally, financially nor physically. I just cant be can i...????
Sorry to anyone who is desperate for a baby I can only imagine what you are going through. I just know I cant have another and i have done the most I can to stop it happening. My OH had chemeo for testicular cancer years ago when we only had 2 kids. 10 years later we go on to have 3 more even tho they say his fertility was effected by the chemeo. I have got preg when on the pill, cap, condom etc..
Please tell me what you think. i could test but I am scared... really really scared!!!!!!!!!!!
d xx
I am 39 (40 in June) and mum to 5 kids. One DD nearly 18, 3 boys aged 15, 4 and 3. Lastly Amelia born feb 08 > I had a traumatic time with her as had placenta previa and was rushed to hosp with a serious bleed. An emerg c section took place and I was sterilised at the same time!!!
Anyway, I am in a bit of a state. I have that awful taste in my mouth...bloody metallic! its making me feel sickly. I also have the runs ( I always get this in early preg) and I am exhausted,,,,
I am still BF Amelia but my boobs do feel sore (she is biting now she has teeth)
I have been having really heavy periods for about 8 months. I last had on on 30th Dec. This was heavy and painful. We had sex a few times ..the last time about 9 days ago which was prob when I O/V
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me I cannot be.... I just cant.
I could not handle it emotionally, financially nor physically. I just cant be can i...????
Sorry to anyone who is desperate for a baby I can only imagine what you are going through. I just know I cant have another and i have done the most I can to stop it happening. My OH had chemeo for testicular cancer years ago when we only had 2 kids. 10 years later we go on to have 3 more even tho they say his fertility was effected by the chemeo. I have got preg when on the pill, cap, condom etc..
Please tell me what you think. i could test but I am scared... really really scared!!!!!!!!!!!
d xx
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BTW, Hayleys1, dee dee is not using bf as contraception, after her last lo she was sterilised, but she is worried in case it was not successful.
Good luck hun. You will cope no matter what the outcome.
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I dont want to worry you but a friend of the family had her tubes tied after a c-section and fell pregnant 10 months later. her surgeon said that the clips that they used had obviously slipped due to the swollen tubes reducing in size(as her body got back to normal after birth etc).
So yes I would test or at least see your gp to check on things to see if you are ok and of course for your piece of mind too.
I wish you the best of luck xxxxxxxx
I have calmed down a bit and done a bit of googling. this metallic taste can mean lots of things. My oldest DD has acute phlarangitis which is like a sore throat. maybe I am getting that and thats why I am tired etc..????
Oh well, fingers crossed. I will not be POAS for a while BUT will let you know when I do.
thanks so much for advice...
d xx
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I will get test if things dont calm down.
Got cramp in my leg too today while bathing the 3 little ones... unusual and something i get but usually in late pregnancy.
I am scared as I know my consultant would want me to terminate and |I know I would be a mental mess. Its not so much I am totally against it but its not for me. However, how could I put my other 5 kids under the hardship of me on bed rest and probably in a white strait jacket.
I am jumping waaaaayyy ahead I know.
IF it was positive you would find me rocking in a corner somewhere!!!!!!!!!!! lol
dxxx
I came on this morning...PHEW!!! Feel so silly now.
d xxx
Take care
Lisa xxx
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