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When u get your BFP's Who are you going to tell
With my son i told EVERYONE ASAP but after 2 mc i think this time i will be holing back.
Although through family probs i only have dad+step mum & sil who is also my bestfriend in my life WOW billy no mates o o o And U lovely ladys xx
1st i will tell OH and U ladys then SIL
At 8ish weeks i will tell my dad+stpmum
after 12week scan ill tell odd people on facebook (my 63 friends :roll: ) lol
What about everyone elce ????????????
With my son i told EVERYONE ASAP but after 2 mc i think this time i will be holing back.
Although through family probs i only have dad+step mum & sil who is also my bestfriend in my life WOW billy no mates o o o And U lovely ladys xx
1st i will tell OH and U ladys then SIL
At 8ish weeks i will tell my dad+stpmum
after 12week scan ill tell odd people on facebook (my 63 friends :roll: ) lol
What about everyone elce ????????????
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and I want to tell people in person and my family lives in Germany
It will be hard to wait for such a long time but I gonna stick to it mainly as MIL really doesn't want us to have children yet and don't want her to freak me out..
I was thinking that i would want the support of my family if something happened (although obviously hoping it doesn't!) Therefore i would probably tell my mum + step dad, my dad and step mum, OH's parents and my OH's brother and SIL. They are the people i could trust to keep it secret (although a tad worried about OH's mum!) and they would be the people i would be able to turn to if anything happened and we needed their support. Everyone else i would want to wait until 12 weeks. x
So sorry to hear about your loss dotty, i can't imagine how that must have felt. Fingers crossed this next time around that everything goes to plan. x
Oooh who would I tell...Obviously OH then everyone on here!
Last time I told my sister 1st but she's having problems TTC and just been told she has fibroids and an ovarian cyst. I keep swinging between telling her straight away or waiting till 12 weeks. I guess I'll cross that bridge when it comes to it!
I only told my BEST friend in the whole wide world LOL and my mum we are very close
This time i will have to tell my best friend but thats prob it i dont no if i should tell my mum OH has said we will keep it quiet till 12 weeks this time but i dont no when he has got news he is such a girl about it he tells everyone like the day we decided to TTC he told a couple of people down the pub we went for a wii night i was like come on i still had to have my coil removed yet and he was telling people lol
He is such a kid he gets so excited LOL
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We are having a private scan in early Dec (hopefully the 3rd) and then we want to tell parents & siblings on Sat 5th, and then grandparents on the Sunday.
And then no-one else until we're past the 12wk mark. I am 12wks on 29th Dec so will let my parents tell their mates etc on New Years Eve - and then i'll start telling the world from the New Year onwards!
PLEEEEASE let it all go well, have a sticky bean, and happen like that!
Broody
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After that of course I will be on BE telling you lovely ladies.
I'll be testing on the 22nd my birthday is the 26th and have my mum dad and brother are round for a meal... if its a BFP we'lll be announcing it to them then, the DH's mum and OH on the following wednesday.
Apart from that no one until the 12 weeks.... If I could hold off that long! xxx
OH and I have discussed this and don't want to tell anyone until 12 weeks and the scan.
My dream is (unlikely as this is) is to be past 12 weeks on our wedding day and during the speeches, OH saying something along the lines of there being not one but two new (insert new surname) in the family and see who twigs.
But that's a daydream. Reality check keeping it to ourselves as long as possible - although OH just gets overexcited and tells his mum - he did it when we were getting married - we agreed to wait and tell both mums in the same weekend, but he just couldn't wait!!