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Don't think I am going to be popular at work!
My colleague and I were having a discussion about pets and she said to me, 'Well luckily thats all I have to worry about' and I asked her if she would want kids one day (she is almost 40) and she said to me (which is very sad) that she can't have children and has been trying for years with MC and can't adopt either. I felt terrible. To make matters worse my supervisor also told me his wife took several years for her to conceive and have not been able to try again and also want to adopt but have been on the waiting list for ages even though they are both on good pay and a big house ect...
I can't imagine how my colleague would feel if I told her I was pregnant! ( I am really really worried that they are going to treat me differently..... I know I am being silly but I am so worried!!!!
Thanks for listening, I know there is not much to say about it but its nice to talk to you ladies about it!! Anyone else REALLY nervous about telling work when you do get your bfps?
I can't imagine how my colleague would feel if I told her I was pregnant! ( I am really really worried that they are going to treat me differently..... I know I am being silly but I am so worried!!!!
Thanks for listening, I know there is not much to say about it but its nice to talk to you ladies about it!! Anyone else REALLY nervous about telling work when you do get your bfps?
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don't feel bad, they will probably be extremely happy for you, but will be understandably sad - like when there are lots of bfp's on here and girlies have been trying for months.
Its just one of those sad things, they wouldn't want you to worry about telling them!
Congratulations on your bfp!
I often feel envious when I read BFP posts from ladies that have been lucky on the first month but then I scold myself as I would never want anyone else to feel the same disappointment I feel every month if that makes sense. x
[Modified by: BroodyBeth on November 27, 2009 08:20 PM]
You work people will be ok, I get jealous all the time but it soons subsides into happiness for them.
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I really hope she will be happy for me! Both woman I work with are almost 40 and don't have kids so I wont have anyone to talk to about pregnancy stuff My friend had a baby but she moved to Spain!! I will have to come on here everyday when I get my bfp... wait a minute I am on here EVERYDAY?! How sad am I?! hehe
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Glad everything is going ok, nice to keep in touch with ladies!
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I am hoping to get a job soon and then as soon as that happens i am ttc like mad!!!