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Im new and a little naive!
I have been coming on here for 3 months but this is my first post because I was scared it would make it seem all the more real!.
I came off the pill in September after 8 years and we decided to just be relaxed and if it happened it happened, and have only had one AF since then, I naively thought that we would get pregnant straight away and now Im getting depressed and its onle been 3 months! I am now an day 41 of a cycle, I have no idea whan I ovulated, none at all!
This is kindof a pointless post, but it feels good to get it down on paper as it were, almost makes me feel slightly less deranged!!
Sorry for the rambling x:roll:
I came off the pill in September after 8 years and we decided to just be relaxed and if it happened it happened, and have only had one AF since then, I naively thought that we would get pregnant straight away and now Im getting depressed and its onle been 3 months! I am now an day 41 of a cycle, I have no idea whan I ovulated, none at all!
This is kindof a pointless post, but it feels good to get it down on paper as it were, almost makes me feel slightly less deranged!!
Sorry for the rambling x:roll:
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Welcome to the madhouse that is TTC
Everybody feels like you mainly because in school they scare you sooooo much by saying if you ever do it wthout protection, you will be pg immediately LOL
I have only been off the pill since mid August and we were also only going to see what happens...now hubby just wants me to get pg now cos he hates seeing me upset everytime AF arrives
Hope that your cycles become regular soon...or if you are lucky stop for a long while
xxx
Good luck to you and Hubby xxx
You're very similar to me - I came off the pill in Sept but I had been on the pill slightly longer for 12 years. I had one period after 5 weeks and now on 56 days... in all honesty I didn't even think coming off the pill and getting usual cycles would be any issue - how naive am I! Now it's seriously frustrating, would just like that "chance" every month, now I just want a period. As written, so ironic over years of being paraniod over getting preggers!!
Anyway just wanted to say hello and to let you know you're not the only one!
A x
you will get to know what your body feels like, what signs are AF, OV and then will be able to spot any unusual AF sign when you'rre about to get your BFP...
i get NO symptoms at all with AF... slight cramping once the bleeding has actually started, so i am glad i have been through the cycles as i will now be able to look out for things that aren't right! sure i won't be saying that in 5 months if i'm still not PG!
welcome to the wonderful world of TTC!