Career and Baby number 2
As you can see I have had recent issued with baby number 2 not going to go on but I was struggling coming to terms with when best to have one.
After discussion we are trying around Feb next year to try and get our daughter in school just as my maternity runs out. This is mainly becuase I work full time and childcare is 3 days grandparents 2 days nursery.
anyway was talkiNG to my mum sounding her out about if she would look after another one baring in mind she is 62 and it would be another 2 years off. She said something quite hurtful and one i find very upsetting.
"if I were you with your new career (i changed jobs) I would just stick to one child you cant do both"
Is this true? I find it very upsetting as my sister HAS 4 and never once has she said maybe you have enough she can just pop them out for M&S if she likes - becasue she stays at home.
Just when I thought I was straight in mind (apart from still thinking something bad is going to happen and having a unhealthy obssession with bad things) this has just set me back. My mum did say she would look after another 2 days but still
WHY CANT I HAVE BOTH!!!