Partner being dodgy with phone

So I just want others opinions please. Would just like to say I’m not a controlling/jealous girlfriend I just want other opinions because I don’t know if I’m going mad or not. So I few weeks ago I found out my partner had been on a website where women can upload homemade naked pictures/videos. They weren’t porn stars they were actual women if you get what I’m trying to say. I wasn’t happy about it so we had a chat and I decided to drop it. Anyway, last night our son was on his phone watching YouTube and DP needed to nip go Tesco’s. He took his phone off our son so I basically said why can’t you just leave it here, you’re only going to be 10 minutes and DS is settled. He then started to say he needed it incase he had an accidentconfused which I thought was a pretty strange thing to say. Long story short he refused to leave it and home and took it with him. I understand I may get mixed responses but I want to know how other people would feel and want to make sure I’m not being paranoid

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  • Hi, it’s very hard to judge or comment like this but I know if that was my husband on a website like that I’d be fuming! My best advice would be trust your gut instinct, if something isn’t right, try and get to the bottom of it before it festers and becomes an even bigger problem x
  • It's difficult to say - I would always take my phone even if only popping out as I know the time I didn't would be the time I broke down or something. I can understand why you would be suspicious though.
  • Bingy91 said:
    So I just want others opinions please. Would just like to say I’m not a controlling/jealous girlfriend I just want other opinions because I don’t know if I’m going mad or not. So I few weeks ago I found out my partner had been on a website where women can upload homemade naked pictures/videos. They weren’t porn stars they were actual women if you get what I’m trying to say. I wasn’t happy about it so we had a chat and I decided to drop it. Anyway, last night our son was on his phone watching YouTube and DP needed to nip go Tesco’s. He took his phone off our son so I basically said why can’t you just leave it here, you’re only going to be 10 minutes and DS is settled. He then started to say he needed it incase he had an accidentconfused which I thought was a pretty strange thing to say. Long story short he refused to leave it and home and took it with him. I understand I may get mixed responses but I want to know how other people would feel and want to make sure I’m not being paranoid

    my partner looks at sites like these and I honesty do not know wat the interest is none of them are porn star material and never will be ive told him my dislike but im sure he still look wat can you do id rather he looked than touched.

    my ex husband of 10 years together had numerous affairs was chatting up young girls on dating sites the lot so my confidence isn't very good but men will look at wat they will the "fantasy" its hard to trust after going through all that but I don't think with my new partner that it would go any further than looking if im honest he knows id be out that door baby and all! 


    I can kinda see why he took it maybe your just reading too much into it?

  • I totally understand the website thing as I too would be fuming if I caught my husband on a site like that. I honestly don't see the problem with the phone, he was quite happy for your DS to play on the phone with no hesitation if anything strange was going on in sure he wouldn't let his phone leave his pocket. I live 2 mins away from the supermarkets and when my husband nips there I tell him to take his phone incase something happens to either him or the kids as you just never know. He may only be gone a couple of mins and I do the same, if ever your feeling a little suspicious pick his phone up if he starts to get cross then questions need answering if he asks what your doing say I'm looking at your pictures of DS incase you can send me any, see his reaction. It's most likely nothing. X
  • je serais en colère! Mon meilleur conseil serait de faire confiance à votre instinct. Si quelque chose ne va pas
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