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Just not Coping 😭Baby has Hydrops and cystic hygroma and would need palliative care

Chloe888Chloe888 Regular
edited Mar 29, 2020 11:16AM in Miscarriage & pregnancy loss
I was in the due August 2020 group and now im here and feel so lost and heartbroken. 

Was at the hospital Tuesday and have known since 12 weeks baby has been poorly but got quite a big shock thought it was just a chat but had scan and heart specialist saw me! Didnt ever think I'd have to write this but I think we have come to the end of the road with the little one. What a fight it has put up. Hydrops is getting worse and cystic hygroma is bigger also. It now has a hypoplastic heart and the kidneys are failing. If I were to choose to carry on and by some absolute miracle the baby made it full term they have said it would be palliative care only 😭 I'm heartbroken and dont know what to do it where to turn for advice x

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    Omg this is an awful situation, I cant imagine where your head is at right now. I honestly dont know what to suggest as it's such a tough decision to make, go with your heart and what you think is right. I'm so sorry xxx
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    @SP4 thank you for the reply. I wasn't sure If anyone on here may have been in a similar situation. Yh we are trying to do the right thing it's just hard to know what that is xxxx
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    Sorry hun I haven't, aww I bet. It's such a difficult decision to make i bet you are just torn between. :( xx
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    Yes totally its suffering now they have said and I can't bare that xx
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    Aww god :(:( I think I would know what I had to do but I'm not in this situation. I feel for you both :( 
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    Yh I know too its just so hard xx
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    Course it is :( 
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    Hya hun message me I had similar situation  2 years ago. I will try message u now xxx
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