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Great news...... so upset!!!!!!!!
I went to A+E last night as it is 16 days since my D+C and I am still bleeding. So down and upset as I really wnt to get back to normal so I can start TTC again. Anyway I've been booked in for a scan on Monday to see what is wrong.
Woke up this morning feeling down about everything.
As I got up my mum called and I told her about the Hospital visit. She then said she had some news for me and started crying....... my brother and sister in law found out yesterday they are expecting their second baby. I immediatley burst into tears, really distraught.
Both me and my mum were in tears, my mum feels so bad for me, but wants to be so happy for my brother and his wife.
I feel so empty, this has just taken me back three weeks to step one, feel so upset. But now I feel so guily for feeling bad. I should be so happy for them, but all I can feel is sadness for me and my DH. I really want to be happy for them, and I in now way do I feel jealous or bad for them, I just cant get my sadness out of the way to feel happy for them.
My mum is distraught as she cant help but feel that she should have two grandchildren on the way at the same time, which would have been amazing, to go through it together would have been fabulous. I just feel so mixed up this morning, just really want to get myself back to normal and join her a few months behind but it makes me feel like her pregnancy will be a constant reminder for me of our loss!!!!!
When I was already down I just feel this is another massive kick to knock me further down!!!! We are really close to my brother and his family and I really am happy for them, and I know it will shown when I can deal with my sadness...... arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!:\(
Woke up this morning feeling down about everything.
As I got up my mum called and I told her about the Hospital visit. She then said she had some news for me and started crying....... my brother and sister in law found out yesterday they are expecting their second baby. I immediatley burst into tears, really distraught.
Both me and my mum were in tears, my mum feels so bad for me, but wants to be so happy for my brother and his wife.
I feel so empty, this has just taken me back three weeks to step one, feel so upset. But now I feel so guily for feeling bad. I should be so happy for them, but all I can feel is sadness for me and my DH. I really want to be happy for them, and I in now way do I feel jealous or bad for them, I just cant get my sadness out of the way to feel happy for them.
My mum is distraught as she cant help but feel that she should have two grandchildren on the way at the same time, which would have been amazing, to go through it together would have been fabulous. I just feel so mixed up this morning, just really want to get myself back to normal and join her a few months behind but it makes me feel like her pregnancy will be a constant reminder for me of our loss!!!!!
When I was already down I just feel this is another massive kick to knock me further down!!!! We are really close to my brother and his family and I really am happy for them, and I know it will shown when I can deal with my sadness...... arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!:\(
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hope as the days go by you start to feel better about it all
x
Big hugs
Jacqui
xx
however...the thing that nearly killed me was that my cousin who is an a&e nurse and dealt with me when the mc first started and i went to hosp found out she was was pregnant a week after my mc and i only found out from her facebook status!!! she hasn't even spoken to me since it all happened!
hope u feel better soon...i still have good and bad days, the 12 week scans are a killer so be prepared for that *hugs* x
I called my SIL last night and she apologised for being pregnant!!!!!!! I told her don't ever do that again, it is amazing news and I couldn't be happier, don't let my situation spoil anypart of their experience.
I am already dealing with this better within 24 hours so I know with time I will be fine, espicially if I can fall pregnant and join her in the journey!!!!!!!:\)