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Having another small blip....
Hi girls
Sorry I feel like all iv done lately is moan or been an emotional wreck!!
My bf has told me today she is pg, dont get me wrong I am happy for her, I know that for her it was hard to tell me as she had just started trying for no 2 (conceived 1st cycle) she knows the struggle we have had & has been a wonderful support to me & oh as she has also suffered mc before her dd no1 & we had both hoped that we would conceive together & be bump buddies.
Im not jealous I just feel really disapointed that it's not been that easy for us, I am the only one out of my good friends that still doesnt have any children & doesnt seem to be getting any closer to it happening.
And I just cant stop thinking about it, it's been playing on my mind since she told me this afternoon, im not upset that shes pg just upset that im not!!!
Sorry!! xx
Sorry I feel like all iv done lately is moan or been an emotional wreck!!
My bf has told me today she is pg, dont get me wrong I am happy for her, I know that for her it was hard to tell me as she had just started trying for no 2 (conceived 1st cycle) she knows the struggle we have had & has been a wonderful support to me & oh as she has also suffered mc before her dd no1 & we had both hoped that we would conceive together & be bump buddies.
Im not jealous I just feel really disapointed that it's not been that easy for us, I am the only one out of my good friends that still doesnt have any children & doesnt seem to be getting any closer to it happening.
And I just cant stop thinking about it, it's been playing on my mind since she told me this afternoon, im not upset that shes pg just upset that im not!!!
Sorry!! xx
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don't say sorry hun, i always think twice about posting a moaning post, was quite tempted to tonight actually! lol, but everyone always helps pick u up again and thats what we here 4 so why the hell not!!! and i totally get what u mean about everyone else having kids or being pg! it's 2 years next month since i stopped my pill, and what have i got to show.... nothing but heartache!
it's easier said than done but try to be strong for that lil while longer until ur appt, i really really hope they'll give you some answers of if they can't at least an actionplan for your next pg to try and give ur body a helping hand!
sending you lots of ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) xxx
That's why I post in ltttc as well cause they get the heartache of the time scale that's been involved & the girlies here get the mc heartache.
I am genuinly happy for her & I knew before she told me just had a feeling as with her dd1 she conceived 1st month as well. Feel awful cause she's lovely!!
Gona go to appt tomorrow & ask what the action plan is on getting me a sticky bun in the oven before the year is out, sad I know the year has just started but baby wont be born this year at this rate!!!
(((((((((HUGS)))))))))) right back at ya xxx
Hope the appt goes really well, and you come up with a good plan with the consultant.
Gems
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it's always going to be hard but I guess we just have to stay positive and know when we get there we'll be the happiest people on earth and our children will never want for love. I am fortunate as I already have a son so I know I have that distraction from my losses but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone with those 'i'm so happy for you but it's not fair' moments x
It too can empathise entirely with what you're going through. It was only a month ago that my bf told me she was pg with her second, and I am so happy for her, but sad at the same time. I guess it is normal to feel this way, but it doesn't make it any easier.
I hope your appt goes well tomorrow, and that you get all the answers you are looking for so that you can move on with ttc to get that much deserved lil' bean.
Sending you lots of hugs and PMA x x x
you are not a bad person, I feel exactly the same.
Im distancing myself from friends, and more people seem to be annoucing their pregnancies, that I just think its not fair it should be our turn!!!
it will be our turns soon hun
you are such a strong woman and even in cyber space I can tell how genuinely nice and supportive you are.
I hope your appt goes
lots of love and hugs
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I just feel so deflated at the moment, appt was rubbish (see other post) and am just sat here crying, I couldnt wait to get home just so I could talk to you lot as I dont even feel like the cons understand anymore!! xxx
Ive just read your other post - what a load of b ollax! im so angry that they didnt give you the time you deserve. did they say what the next stage would be?
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It's just never straight forward & it seems to be for us thar it never rains it bloody pours!!! xxxx
Thanks for the hugs Clare xxxx
I live in fear that my SIL is going to announce she's pregnant. Whilst you are happy for your bf I understand it's quite a constant reminder of what you want. It's totally natural to feel how you do, although it doesn't make it any easier.
x xx