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10 Month Old! Help! Feeling really low and down
For a fair few months now I've been feeling really low and down. I was trying to get help from my Doctors and they keel fobbing me off every time. Dad is hardly there and hasn't been from our Daughters birth. I went through an awful time with her being born early by C section as I had pre-ecclampsia. She was born very frail and small and every day I would be up and down the hospital supplying her my milk to give her the best start of survival for her. She was wired up to heart monitors for 6 weeks. It was a scary time. And still dad isn't helping me as much as I need him to be. We don't live together yet so its harder flicking from one home to the other. I am mainly with our daughter. I feel low isolated and anxious. It doesn't help I have mental health issues anyway but I get very frustrated easily with our daughter. She can be challenging and has tummy troubles constipation a lot and going through teething so finding it hard to cope. Me and her Father are on the rocks in our relationship because he hasn't stepped up to being a father like he should be and I'm getting very fed up. And I just feel trapped and have no idea what to do. I feel bad that I don't look forward to being with my child and only feel calm when she sleeps. I feel some days I don't want to attend to her. I do but I don't feel motivated and even tho I do her care needs I just hate being a mother
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Has your baby's dad wanted a baby? How he was while you been pregnant?
The only help I get the most if off my mom and step dad and that's not fair.