Trip booked before pregnant - WWYD?
My H is cycling mad, I booked for us to be in Leeds for the start of the Tour de France next summer - on our first wedding anniversary, so all very lovely. We should, by then, fingers crossed, have a 3 month old.
I *really* don't want to spoil the event for him, it means so much to him. We were going to cycle a fair bit, and party in the evenings. If we take the decision for me to stay home we need his best mate to get time booked off asap (it's complex shift rotas with heavy restrictions, so we need to act fast-ish).
a) go, with baby, join in as much as possible on foot and let him go off and do his cycling thing alone? He would do this but I know wouldn't enter in to the full spirit of it and it's not the same doing the cycling alone. I think I would feel like I was spoiling it for him...
b) stay at home and spend our first WA apart, which neither want really but I am okay with?
c) Something else?
Some other background. It's a 5 hour drive each way, the hotel (q. expensive) is booked. It's in his hometown and we would probably try to see an old friend and I would love to meet his grandma who he adores but doesn't get to see, she has very bad alzheimers and tends not to know who anyone is.