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SPD and pain relief
Hi ladies,
Was wondering what everyone does for pain relief from this bloody condition....its driving me mad :x
I'm currently 38+4 and have had spd for about 2 weeks, was confirmed by my mw last Friday. During the day its painful if i do too much and at night its just the worst - turning over in bed, changing postions, getting up for a wee etc takes forever with me huffing, puffing, swearing cos of the pain, my poor hubby!!!
Anyway, generally i can "manage" during the day as i can limit what i do but at certain times, night included, its just unbearable.
My mw said i'd just have to put up with it and hopefully it'll go after the birth but i was wondering if any of you take pain relief for it? I know you can have physio etc..but do any of you take paracetamol or paracetamol and codeine or use a hot water bottle?
Don't know whether to see my gp or just try and self manage, also feel a bit upset as i've managed without any kind of pain relief throughout my whole pregnancy, even when i've felt rough. I know that the ones that i've mentioned are "safe" in pregnancy but feel as though i shouldn't be taking anything or that i've failed if i do as don't want it to affect my bubba.
Any tips or info greatfully received
A fed up SH 38+4 (
Was wondering what everyone does for pain relief from this bloody condition....its driving me mad :x
I'm currently 38+4 and have had spd for about 2 weeks, was confirmed by my mw last Friday. During the day its painful if i do too much and at night its just the worst - turning over in bed, changing postions, getting up for a wee etc takes forever with me huffing, puffing, swearing cos of the pain, my poor hubby!!!
Anyway, generally i can "manage" during the day as i can limit what i do but at certain times, night included, its just unbearable.
My mw said i'd just have to put up with it and hopefully it'll go after the birth but i was wondering if any of you take pain relief for it? I know you can have physio etc..but do any of you take paracetamol or paracetamol and codeine or use a hot water bottle?
Don't know whether to see my gp or just try and self manage, also feel a bit upset as i've managed without any kind of pain relief throughout my whole pregnancy, even when i've felt rough. I know that the ones that i've mentioned are "safe" in pregnancy but feel as though i shouldn't be taking anything or that i've failed if i do as don't want it to affect my bubba.
Any tips or info greatfully received
A fed up SH 38+4 (
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Do you think i need to see my gp as i read that codeine near to birth can affect the baby's breathing and as i'm so close....think i'm worrying a bit too much, not sure???
Wearing satiny pjs in bed helps when you move about and turn - and also putting a cushion between your legs. I had a massive body pillow when I was pg with matthew - it was dead comfy and really helped me.
Also, sounds silly, but my physio said to put a carrier bag on the car seat so that I can turn easier to get in and out of the car easier. That worked nicely too!
I personally would take paracetamol before getting out of bed, and at intervals when you need it. If you want to see your GP - you can do, just to let them know how you're going. However, mine was sympathetic but useless - there's nothing they can really do about it. But they can put your mind at rest about what relief you can take for it.
Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy.
xxx
Thanks for the tips on getting in n out of the car too, it takes me ages as it hurts so much, i try to keep my knees together as much as i can to help.
I think i'll probably call my gp tmoro to put my mind at rest but at the same time will probably take some paracetamol tonight to see if it helps at all.
Thanks for your well wishes, just want to meet my baby now xxx
38+5 x
Oh, good luck with the rest of your preg, you're due the day before me!!! xxx
Mentioned to my MW and she just said, I've got the physio's number if I need it.......
Will try the pillow between the legs at night and see how that goes.
BBxx
Good luck babybunny, hope it doesn't get worse for you, being so close to labour is my saving grace ( as worried as i am about that too) xxx
Hope everyone is feeling better soon x
i have bn referred for accupuncture by my MW but im STILL waiting for an app *sigh*
Anyway the pillows def help but like you say trying to get up to pee in the night is a nightmare. I have to wake hubby up to help me up.
I dont have a clue what i will do if i end up on crutches. How the hell does that work with 2 kids and the school run etc!
Sorry, ive just moaned and rly not helped you at all.
Just think the end is in sight for you hon. I had it from 36 weeks with olly and was rly quite ok . I hurt but i just kept counting down the weeks/days. Bit harder this time tho. I feel full term already lol
Hope it eases for you soon hon and like i said, the end is nigh.
Jenn
19+6
Like you I hate the thought of popping pills (I'm even reluctant to take paracetemol for a headache when I'm not pregnant) but it's got to the point where I need to in order to cope. I've decided I'm going to only take it twice a day when I'm struggling most as I really don't want to be constantly dosed up - if you can't feel the pain as badly you won't know if you're overdoing it and making it worse, for one thing :roll:
We're all bloddy suffering, its horrible. pumkin pie, I get scared to have a bath as feel i may get stuck as its so painful, getting in has been a nightmare but getting out isn't so bad as can push myself up with my arms and then sit on the side - its the lowering in that i can't do but when i've managed it does help, thanks.
Paracetamol it is for tonight then and perhaps my hot water bottle although i feel as though i'll be boiling the baby as my pain is right at the front of my pubic bone and lady bits where bubba's head is.
Thanks tronski, I really hope everyone feels better soon too, hope you get your referral soon Jenn xxx
we were replying at the same time i think. I might do what you said as i am so paranoid about taking any medication really so don't want to be too dosed up as have taken nothing so far and am nearly there. I really do feel for everyone and have just said to my hubby that i've done well to get so far without getting it, god knows how you all cope so early on....i tell you this, this is our 1st baby but may well end up being our last, sad to say but the pain, don't know if i can do it again as i've found myself in tears tonight from being so fed up....i hope so though as we do want more than 1 xxx
As you know ive been suffering a while (since about 20 weeks) and have been stuck in the bath on many occasions..hubby has to get me out the bath, dry me as I cant bend/move then put my trousers on for me.
Things I find help a little -
Ive used a support pillow in bed since about 13 weeks as i had bad back from then and used to find it wonderful! Now im nearing the end I actually find the pillow doesnt help at all (but that might just be me)
If I use the pillow between my legs..I get a really sore hip (the one im lying on) and have to then turn over after half an hour to the other hip..then obv half hour later turn again!! Which as you know turning is the worst part...I havent been using a pillow and last night only needed to turn over about 3 times!!
Also, for turning over... if you gently nudge yourself to the edge of the bed..then use your upper body to roll rather then flip that definatly helps!! Although hubby does get annoyed at me rolling myslef towards him lol!!...I also found that trying to keep your legs straight aswell as together while you roll hurts less.
I think different things help for different people..hang in there hun not long left for you now!!!
Big Hugs to you and baby happy
xxxx
PB 35+5
The tips are really helpful, thank you. I just can't believe that everyday things like getting in/out of bed, getting washed n dressed are so difficult and painful. I only have a bath if hubby is in as i fear getting stuck lol.
Thanks lara re advice on having an epidural, have been thinking about the birth a lot recently as i'm hopefully nearly there, not that keen on having one anyway but haven't ruled it out - what you say makes sense though. Gonna ask my mw about birthing positions when i see her next, will try not to feel bad if i need to take any pain killers, have still managed to resist so far but the paracetamol is on my bedside table ready xxx
Gosh that sounds nasty...so sorry to hear that you are really suffering too.
I think for me the whole pain killer thing is such an issue because i've got so far through the pregnancy without any...anyway, don't worry, i will take some if i'm desperate, thanks.
Hope you feel better soon xxx
SH 39 wks today!!!
I am 25+4 and think i am just starting to suffer from this, the last few days i have been getting bad pains in my groin and pelvis, made worse if i sit for too long nd then get up to walk, its hurrendous, haven't been to midwife yet to see her about it but going to get an appointment.
worse thing of all is that i work in an office and cant get any work done coz i have to keep getting up and down otherwise its worse. don't know whether i should go to my doc and get a note to stay off work, as i am finding the pain, like many of you, unbearable, and sometimes catch myself crying coz of it lol.
eliz xx