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Rock bottom
So im 12 weeks pregnant my boyfriend told me he is worried he may have an std, i havent been sleeping with anyone other than him and i wasnt prior to my pregnancy (but still try get checked regularly) i really dont know how to handle the situation. Looking at him or speaking to him hurts. He already had a child on me almost 2 years ago and onlt told me the week i found out i was pregnant. There is alot more i could ssy but to summerise it i feel like im at rock bottom. Like everything that could go wrong is going wrong. Im scared for my child.
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Go to your GP and request tests. Usually they will check for any STDs with the blood tests they take to measure your HCG levels anyway, but if he has passed it on recently, they may not have shown up.
STDs can be dangerous for a developing fetus, so if you suspect you may have one, you need to get tested ASAP.
Also, I recommend rethinking your relationship - cheating on you is one thing, cheating on you whilst you are pregnant and putting you and your baby at risk? He's not worth it.