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So angry, please can anyone give me advise
Hi
I usually use another name on this site but wanted to keep this anon. I was using my oh mobile phone on sunday to send a message. When i went in to delete my sent message ( this is what i do on my own phone to keep space) i saw he had sent someone a message releating to a pic he got from them. His message back was along the lines of thanks for that, i had fun looking at that(only a bit more rude). When i asked him about it he said it was nothing. Then he admitted he had found someone on the internet who was interested in the same things as him and it was a one off message between them. I felt sick to my stomache and have been so upset since then i didnt know what to do. We have a 15 mth old baby who is the love of my life. He was scared that because we went out without telling him that i was leaving. We have been together for 10 years now and nothing like this has ever happend. We have never even really had a disagreement. He is really sorry and feels so stupid, he knows he has done wrong and is embarrased. What should i do
I usually use another name on this site but wanted to keep this anon. I was using my oh mobile phone on sunday to send a message. When i went in to delete my sent message ( this is what i do on my own phone to keep space) i saw he had sent someone a message releating to a pic he got from them. His message back was along the lines of thanks for that, i had fun looking at that(only a bit more rude). When i asked him about it he said it was nothing. Then he admitted he had found someone on the internet who was interested in the same things as him and it was a one off message between them. I felt sick to my stomache and have been so upset since then i didnt know what to do. We have a 15 mth old baby who is the love of my life. He was scared that because we went out without telling him that i was leaving. We have been together for 10 years now and nothing like this has ever happend. We have never even really had a disagreement. He is really sorry and feels so stupid, he knows he has done wrong and is embarrased. What should i do
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Sorry if i haven't been much help but my fingers are crossed for you xxxx
Really hope it works out - it's so rare to find a happy balance in a family... it would be a shame to lose it.