tired of being a mum!
I have 2 children aged 3& 5 .I cry from being so exhausted and not knowing what to do.
No matter what I do, say or take away from them they won’t behave.
They make me feel as if I don’t want children anymore; I mean sometimes I feel as if I want to give them away. I go to bed cleaning up and wake up having to clean. dinner time is horrible. It’s as if I have two infants. They have food all over their faces, table and floor, up running around or playing in their seats. im so tired from all the yelling I have to do and the cleaning that by the middle of the day I am burned out stepdad tries his best to help but he just end up having to yell at them too which gives me a headache and I feel bad for him having to come home from work to this mess and wake up for work to this mess.
They go to their dads every weekend and i think he spoils them as they always say they wanna go and live with daddy, i try to explain to them if they behaved i wouldnt have to yell at them all the time. Most kids would go out of their way to make their parents happy surely, ive even tried smacking their bums and they dont even care about that, people say hit them harder but i really dont think thats the way, time out dosnt bother them they just scream and shout and kick the door in!
I need some advice. Is there anyone just tired of being a mum? What can I do to make this better for us?