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Could you trust again? Need help!
4 month ago a week before our wedding I caught my husband looking at she male escorts, I felt completely trapped as the wedding was paid for and felt like I had to marry him, now 4 month on I can't trust him. He said he was just looking and wasn't going to do anything. Am I being unreasonable? I dont know whether i should be still upset?
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Hi, I wouldn't be too worried unless other behaviour confirms something suspicious, the need to "look" at other woman rarely evades many men. You can ask him about it, he may be more open about why than you imagine. You don't say anything has happened since.
Wow that's some intense stuff. Have you checked the internet history on your computer? Honestly, for me i would'nt be able to shake it off knowing what he'd been looking at it - but there's a big difference between looking at and acting on. Like men checking porn isn't the end of the world, quite normal, not something i'd be bothered about, but a guy checking out shemale escorts - was he planning on booking one? Has he already done so? Also, shemale stuff - that's a guy with breasts and a penis, so is he into men?
Please don't feel bad you couldn't let it go - i think i'd be the same as you, but unless you have hard evidence of him acting on it, you might just want to do some snooping or have it out with him.
Good luck hon!