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Is anyone else finding that their relationship with the OH is changing. My relationship just seems to be horrible at the moment and I thought having a baby was meant to bring you closer together.
I have gone off sex completely which doesnt help but i just feel my partner isnt being very supportive. I had to be taken into hospital late xmas eve and he wasnt worried about me he was just morning about it being so late and he was tired. I was so scared at the hospital yet the whole time we were there i felt like a was a burden as he get morning about how long things were taking. I do love my husband but the more are relationship seems to get worse the more i am thinking that maybe i dont love him. I am at home as been signed off work with stress and so i try and do everything around the house so he doesnt have to but when you comes in he just seems to comment on how i am not doing the dishes right or making the bed right. I just cant seem to do anything right and then he wonders why i dont want to go out with him or spend time with him. I dont know what to do.
Is anyone else having problems with their relationship or is it just me?
Is anyone else finding that their relationship with the OH is changing. My relationship just seems to be horrible at the moment and I thought having a baby was meant to bring you closer together.
I have gone off sex completely which doesnt help but i just feel my partner isnt being very supportive. I had to be taken into hospital late xmas eve and he wasnt worried about me he was just morning about it being so late and he was tired. I was so scared at the hospital yet the whole time we were there i felt like a was a burden as he get morning about how long things were taking. I do love my husband but the more are relationship seems to get worse the more i am thinking that maybe i dont love him. I am at home as been signed off work with stress and so i try and do everything around the house so he doesnt have to but when you comes in he just seems to comment on how i am not doing the dishes right or making the bed right. I just cant seem to do anything right and then he wonders why i dont want to go out with him or spend time with him. I dont know what to do.
Is anyone else having problems with their relationship or is it just me?
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im having a similar sort of thing too, my OH last night decided that i was useless at doing the washing, ironing, dusting in actual fact was just useless at pretty much everything around the house thats when i actually bother to da anything. i went shopping yesterday in the sales and bought him home a few presents a book and a little cute bib that said 2i love my daddy" he picked up the bib completely dismissed the point said "oh its a bib" and then concentrated on the book, then couldnt understand why i was upset. why are men so inconsiderate sometimes? i ended up spending most of the night in tears and sleeping right in the edge of the bed because i couldnt stand him near me.
so ive stopped rambling now, i just wanted to you to know that your not on your own.
take care
lisa x
good luck
Lisa if you ever wanna chat and have a good moan email me karla_burrell@yahoo.co.uk
Thank you everyone
xxxx
Thank you
Love karla x
I just need to think of my little girl and we will just keep out of each others way and decide what we r going to do with the relationship once she is born. One thing is for sure i am not going to bring up my little girl in a unhappy marriage.
Thank you once again xx
hope this helps you a bit hunni )
thanks for that post i might use your tatics on my hubby too.
p.s i really like the date idea, especially if its like real dating when the lady doesn't pay!! lol
xx
Keep smiling girls x x Jen x x