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am i a bad mum?
hi ladies i wa reading on here an it made think.i have a 3 year old an a 1 year old.we dont have loads of money so when we go shopping for food i have to stick to certain things as hubby has been brought on a bad diet he is so fussy as in he only eats peas an bannas (he will only have when i say he has to if they are going bad etc) that is healthy.anyway i have be brought up eat what you given or you have nothing as my parents werent well of with 6 mouths to feed although my mum always made sure we ate well sometimes junk food other times healthy etc.anyway my point is hubby moans if i get to much fruit,veg an salad dd an ds do love most of it an i like them to eat healthy with the odd treat inc chocolate,sweets(not 1 year old)cake an crisps.anyway recently we havent been able to buy much healthy stuff as we had a big bill an not much cash spare.so we have to buy stuff hubby will eat then we can get stuff after.i think with this i have got in abit of a ruck as now my 3 year will have mainly junk food as we dont have loads in.i feel so guilty as i want them to eat well. 3 year old is bad with getting his teeth brushed although dentist sai they are ok.i am a bad mum as give in a let him have what he wants.like today he had 4 jammy dodgers an 2 pink wafers?he had jam on toast for brekky an jam sandwich an pringles for dinner.also should we give snacks i do but tend to be a biscuit or fruit.i feel silly for writing this but i feel so bad i carnt give him healthy stuff most of the time.x
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As the other ladies said frozen is better than non at all, have you got a iceland? what about asda smart price??? I know where you are coming from in regards to no money hun, I used to have less than ??20 a week for the 5 of us before we got sorted and believe it or not my hubby didnt get a choice he ate what I brought or went hungry(and he used to only eat chilly, etc nothing in the way of veg)
Sorry to sound harsh but my kids health comes first and it shouldnt be put on a back burner just for a selfish man.....sorry.
And no you are not a bad mum you obviously did what you needed to, but just bear in mind you hubby is a grown man and if you carry on feeding your children junk food because of him they will end up with a diet like him.
i said i dont care we are going to eat better from no on i want to get healthier.i think i mite say i will go shopping an him wait in the car lol.if i put veg apart form peas an maybe carrots if they so soft they are like mash he wont eat it an would go an make something else.wot eat rabbit food he said an fruit is horrible.is mum is worse than him although she does eat a fe fruit but no veg.hes very srtong minded an will not do what i say he will do what he says if that makes sense in food wise.men eh!
men are just so ignorant arnt they?? I do hope you can manage to do whats best for your lo's without too much hassel from your oh and his mum.
When money is tight I know how hard it is to feed your kids, I felt so guilty that they would only get carrots, cucumber, apples etc but in the long run at least they were getting something. Now we are on the up there is no end to the kids asking for fruit and especially cucumber which was something ds wouldnt touch before and now he eats it all the time!!!
I hope things improve for you babe xxxxxx
Its a super idea especially the seeds are cheap, in wilkos or b&Q!
I dont see anything wrong with tesco value or asda smart price. I do always check the ingrediants label for the amounts of junk in them though!!! most of it is fine to buy, I certainly use smart price and tesco value for alot of my shopping. DD2 loves the value raisons, she scoffs them as much as maryland raisons lol!!
Nothing wrong with a yummy jam sarnie for tea either, I usually put a grated carrot or mix of fruit next to it so they can nibble on that too lol!!
Pasta is another good one thats sooo cheap, just mix with a few veg or salad, a very quick meal for my three after a super busy day and it fills them up too !!!
Asda sp sausages are ok, my dd1 only eats those, she doesnt like any other brand(bonus!!) oh and they are great on a bbq(we had one last night lol!!)
goodluck with your veg patch xxxxxxxxxxxxxx