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WITHDRAWAL METHOD
HI LADIES
JUST WONDERING IF ANYBODY HAS USED THIS METHOD BEFORE ? AND HOW SAFE IT IS ?
I WANT TO START TTC BUT IM OFF ON HOLIDAY IN 3 WEEKS, THIS WAS OUR LAST BIG BLOW OUT HOLIDAY BEFORE HAVING A FAMILY, ANYWAY I STOPPED TAKING MY PILL ABOUT 4 MONTHS AGO AND WE HAVE BEEN CAREFUL SINCE THEN, ANYWAY LAST WEEK WE BD USING THIS TECHNIQUE AND I WAS ON CD14, NOW I HAVE SOME SYMPTOMS AND JUST WONDERED IF ITS POSSIBLE TO BE PREGNANT. I WOULD BE OVER THE MOON IF I WAS, I DO THINK IT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY THOUGH.
CAN ANYONE HELP ?
MOLLY XX ?
JUST WONDERING IF ANYBODY HAS USED THIS METHOD BEFORE ? AND HOW SAFE IT IS ?
I WANT TO START TTC BUT IM OFF ON HOLIDAY IN 3 WEEKS, THIS WAS OUR LAST BIG BLOW OUT HOLIDAY BEFORE HAVING A FAMILY, ANYWAY I STOPPED TAKING MY PILL ABOUT 4 MONTHS AGO AND WE HAVE BEEN CAREFUL SINCE THEN, ANYWAY LAST WEEK WE BD USING THIS TECHNIQUE AND I WAS ON CD14, NOW I HAVE SOME SYMPTOMS AND JUST WONDERED IF ITS POSSIBLE TO BE PREGNANT. I WOULD BE OVER THE MOON IF I WAS, I DO THINK IT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY THOUGH.
CAN ANYONE HELP ?
MOLLY XX ?
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only thing to do is test i suppose x
You can only test, as grudie says, xxx
Have you been tracking your fertility, using temperature etc? This might help you see if you did ovulate at the time.
plus men have very little (bless em) self control and so its never easy to withdraw at the very moment.
Correction, men are *allowed* not to have self control. Its one of the myths that society perpetuates that allow men to continue to have affairs, commit sexual assaults if the woman was dressed/acting a certain way and all those type of things, because we pretend it's part of their programming. Men no more need to have sex or to orgasm than women. The difference is men don't have to deal with the outcome of what they do. (sorry, have a tendancy to soapbox on anything to do with the idea men have uncontrollable sexdrives)
But yeah, basically there is a good chance a bloke will leave it too late to prevent at least some of his ejaculate ending up in, on or around the ladies genitals. The stuff doesn't exactly flow in a sedate, controlled manner from man's bits.
You can only test, as grudie says, xxx
hahaha i lke the 'bless em', yes do a test hun, it is possible!?