Was pregnant but lost at about (doctor says) 8 weeks (probably due to knowing when ovulated about 3-4). trying again and because we have issues with results the normal way we have found a GREAT HELP in artificially doing it using lube applicators. they are rounded at the top so you can stick them in far no worry of causing ouch to the cervix and they narrow so if you tight it not much of a problem and easy to use! hubby does his thing in a clean bowl, leave it till runny then go for it. we just started trying again after 1 month off on nurses orders and it makes thing's so much easier! and now we know it works! fingers crossed for next time! hope this helps some one!