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help some advice please, dont know what to do????
hi ladies, this is not baby related sorry but need help, I have this mate who is my cbm, maybe not for long but we are bestmates, but she keeps causing problems, we went out on tuesday and me, her and her bestmate was suppose to being to bingo, I was not really interested but I said I would go so I made my way to town, when we got inside I was asked her ID, which I dont have as I am 24 and have never needed it. her mate whom I have never met blanked me at 1st and would not talk to me so I decided to bite the bullet and start chatting to her and she seemed nice.
we all started talking and she started talking about her having cbh and abh charges, saying how she could be inprisoned if she commits another crime, and likes cheating on her h2b.
I told my best mate, that I was not happy with her lifestlye and I do not see how she cares about her children 4 months, 3 and 5 years old, if she does this and maybe imprisoned??
I said to my mate I would be nice if we went out if I had to but if she started anyone fights I would leave.
I am having a ann summer party which I did say she could come to but I do not want her coming to my house with my two young children: 10 month old n 2 year old, god knows what she will do, my mate says she starts fight with whoever pisses her off, I dont want that in my house with my kids?
why cant she understand this or am i just being a bitch?????
we all started talking and she started talking about her having cbh and abh charges, saying how she could be inprisoned if she commits another crime, and likes cheating on her h2b.
I told my best mate, that I was not happy with her lifestlye and I do not see how she cares about her children 4 months, 3 and 5 years old, if she does this and maybe imprisoned??
I said to my mate I would be nice if we went out if I had to but if she started anyone fights I would leave.
I am having a ann summer party which I did say she could come to but I do not want her coming to my house with my two young children: 10 month old n 2 year old, god knows what she will do, my mate says she starts fight with whoever pisses her off, I dont want that in my house with my kids?
why cant she understand this or am i just being a bitch?????
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we all started talking and she started talking about her having cbh and abh charges, ie putting someone into hospital and the other time hitting this girl around the face, getting her heel stuck in her check and ripping it across hence scaring her for life now, saying how she could be inprisoned if she commits another crime, and likes cheating on her h2b.
I told my A, that I was not happy with her lifestyle, fighting for one real reason, cheating on her h2b, which ok its her life but having a criminal record and I do not see how she cares about her children 4 months, 1 and 5 years old, if she does this and maybe imprisoned??
I said to A I would be nice if we went out if I had to but if she started anyone fights I would leave.
I am having a ann summer party which I did say T could come to but I do not want T coming to my house with my two young children: 10 month old n 2 year old, god knows what T will do, A says she starts fight with whoever pisses her off, I dont want that in my house with my kids?
why cant she understand this or am i just being a bitch?????
Sorry it did not make sense hope it does now xx
we all started talking and she started talking about her having cbh and abh charges, ie putting someone into hospital and the other time hitting this girl around the face, getting her heel stuck in her check and ripping it across hence scaring her for life now, saying how she could be inprisoned if she commits another crime, and likes cheating on her h2b.
I told my A, that I was not happy with her lifestyle, fighting for one real reason, cheating on her h2b, which ok its her life but having a criminal record and I do not see how she cares about her children 4 months, 1 and 5 years old, if she does this and maybe imprisoned??
I said to A I would be nice if we went out if I had to but if she started anyone fights I would leave.
I am having a ann summer party which I did say T could come to but I do not want T coming to my house with my two young children: 10 month old n 2 year old, god knows what T will do, A says she starts fight with whoever pisses her off, I dont want that in my house with my kids?
why cant she understand this or am i just being a bitch?????
Sorry it did not make sense hope it does now xx
I understand totally. your not being unreasonable, i wouldn't want someone who has previous abh charges in my hosue, especially if there was alcohol flowing!!
I dont understand why she doesn't understand?!!!
I can't offer any advice, but I totally see whre you are coming from.
hope it all goes ok
staecy: I told her the other day and ever since she has been talking about it, saying she is not a monstor or a bitch, they have been best mates for years, I have only been her mate for a year,
she told her she could come to the party because i said i did not want to feel lonely so i said she could come and we could met up before she comes, i just dont want her in my house near my kids n she is not respecting that so I just sent her a message saying sorry but I dont like what she stands for and dont want her near the kids
calleigh: she does not know where I live, but she may know when the party is, it seems A wants me to like T n if i dont she'll stop talking to me?
Hope you are able to sort it out.