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Hi ladies, as some of you know I was told yesterday I have suffered from my 2nd MMC. I am just devastated. Thats 2 in less than 3 and a half months.
I have to go in on tuesday for a D&C and am really scared as last time they gave me a pessary which put me into labour and ended up needing morphine.
I really don't know if I ever want to ttc again. I don't think I could cope with it happeneing again and its not fair on my OH or my DS. I have always wanted a large family and wanted another for my OH (I have two lo's but one was from a previous relationship).
I know im rambling and there is quite a few of us back here over the past couple of weeks but I just feel like screaming. What am I doing wrong? MMC are not common but to have 2 in such a short time is scarey.
I did ask the consultant yesterday if I had ttc too soon after last time and she said no that should not have made any difference.
Sorry for this mess of a post, just wanted to write it down xxx
[Modified by: *Babylove* on 28 August 2010 11:51:24 ]
I have to go in on tuesday for a D&C and am really scared as last time they gave me a pessary which put me into labour and ended up needing morphine.
I really don't know if I ever want to ttc again. I don't think I could cope with it happeneing again and its not fair on my OH or my DS. I have always wanted a large family and wanted another for my OH (I have two lo's but one was from a previous relationship).
I know im rambling and there is quite a few of us back here over the past couple of weeks but I just feel like screaming. What am I doing wrong? MMC are not common but to have 2 in such a short time is scarey.
I did ask the consultant yesterday if I had ttc too soon after last time and she said no that should not have made any difference.
Sorry for this mess of a post, just wanted to write it down xxx
[Modified by: *Babylove* on 28 August 2010 11:51:24 ]
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hugsxxxxxxx
chaxxx
I think what I am trying to say is, just give yourself time.....that is all you need and you will get through this and try again
xx
Anyway hun big hugs and as usual we are all here if you want to chat/ vent etc.
Take care Sue x
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