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feeling useless and unattractive!
Hiya I'm 27 weeks pregnant first time mummy , but I can't help but feel useless and ugly, I used to be a glamour model doing launguriae shoots and had a tiny waste, people are always commenting saying how small my bump is but to me its huge! I have no self confidence anymore as my skin has broke out in achne and the thought of getting naked in front of my partner makes me want to cry, I look in the mirror and hate myself everyday, I know its all worth while as I have the most amazing baby growing inside of me and after 4 mc's I'm over the moon but I can't help but feel insecure and mow this is making me feel useless as I don't feel up to having intercourse with my partner which makes me feel like I'm not satisfying him, and I'm finding it harder and harder to find confidence which is just making me feel more useless, I am loosing my mind and just can't wait until my boy gets here to make it worth it but is there anyone who can help me at all with any adivce? Thanks in advance
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I'm the same babes 26+3 and we don't do the deed any more as I just can't get in the mood as I feel like a fat blob lol. I put a lot of weight on with my first and it took a long time to lose. I know this time I'll b trying even harder and doing everything right to lose the weight ASAP. Just relax and enjoy it your body's doing something amazing xx
you are growing a new life and its amazing hun.
i dont think many of us feel sexy when we pg our bodies go through so many changes. try and focus on the pluses hun
xx