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Long Term TTC support
PinkSnow410
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I used to be on the forum A LOT. After some time and seeing so many lovely women get their miracles, I had to step away. It gets really hard seeing everyone else get their baby and wondering why it won't happen for you. So I thought maybe there were other ladies in that situation who want to support each other. If you've tried for longer than a year, I would love to have a little support group where we can talk and encourage each other.
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I’m 40 and already have a 9yr old took 9 months to conceive that time... so me and my husband have been trying to convince for 8yrs and no luck we’ve had tests at gp and husband had done seman test and all came back ok but because we are over weight they won’t do anything else.... I’m lighter now than first child.... I’m so depressed about this tried to diet but don’t have enough luck.... I worry time isn’t on my side either...
I know the answer is loose weight but I’m so frustrated and depressed about it all.
@PinkSnow410 I recognise your user name from the chat forums. Unfortunately I've been on this forum for longer than I would liked to have been, but it's also been a great support. I completely understand how you feel about girls in a thread all getting pregnant ☹️ big hugs and thanks for starting this thread.
I've been TTC #1 for almost 3.5 tears. I've had three rounds of IVF that ended in two chemical pregnancies and a MMC at 10 weeks that I needed surgical management for. That was in December so I'm still recovering from that. The plan is to see a miscarriage specialist and the ln go from there. Im feeling very doena t the moment as we can't convince naturally and even with IVF I can't seem to keep the baby 😭 we have both decided that if it hasn't happened for us by the end of the year we are going to move on and stop trying. I find it particularly hard as my oh has two children from a previous marriage. He is very supportive but it still feel like a lovely place to be in. He tried to understand but he just won't ever be able to, and I know that's not his fault.
@Lauren1409 Covid has been awful for appointments and delays. So sorry to hear what your going through. I had to wait a few months for clincis to open up again to get going with IVF so I understand your frustration. Has your hubby/oh had his sorwm checked? Have you had any other investigations? Big hugs to you also.
@JLG300 so sorry to hear about your struggles. Have you thought about going private (if affordable). I know the NHS have a strict criteria about weight but some clincis might be able to help. Here any time you need to chat.
keep me posted on your journey lovely xxx
@Lauren1409 is changing your job an option chick? Life’s too bloody short!!! I own a seafood tapas restaurant - I love it and it’s super successful but Covid has been an incredibly stressful time 🥴🥴