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I'm so annoyed!!
Really peed off.
I've changed doctors, yet again, cos me & oh moved in together (long story), and been told the MW could see me today at 11.15. Drove all the way up there only to be told she can see me NEXT WEEK. Ffs I could've had the baby by then. It's only been a week & 1/2 since my last appointment and everything was fine then but I really wanted to know how things were progressing and hopefully ask if she could give me a sweep at some point.
I have been with this dr's before and the receptionist is an absolute cow. One of those ppl with a scary nasal voice lol. I said you do know its my due date on Monday, can't she see me now? But no. Then as I went out to my car the rain was absolutely pouring down and being as its my first car and I haven't been driving that long I didn't know where the heated rear windscreen thing was so I drove back practically blinded!!!
I mean I know it inconvieniences people me moving so late in my pregnancy but they get paid for their job, they shouldn't make me feel like I'm being a pain becuse of my personal circumstances.
I'm so bored as well, got no idea what to do till my due date...Me and my OH both have colds and are miserable, its miserable weather and I haven't even had a twinge. I feel like a failure for not having my lo earlier. I'm not sure why. And I feel incredibly jealous of all the women who had their los at 38 weeks...why arent I one of them?
I just know I'm going 2 weeks over, have barely even had a fake contraction. I'm seriously doubting that my body even knows how to give birth.
I dunno whats wrong, just feel so angry....Someone please tell me to stop being a silly cow!!!! xxx
I've changed doctors, yet again, cos me & oh moved in together (long story), and been told the MW could see me today at 11.15. Drove all the way up there only to be told she can see me NEXT WEEK. Ffs I could've had the baby by then. It's only been a week & 1/2 since my last appointment and everything was fine then but I really wanted to know how things were progressing and hopefully ask if she could give me a sweep at some point.
I have been with this dr's before and the receptionist is an absolute cow. One of those ppl with a scary nasal voice lol. I said you do know its my due date on Monday, can't she see me now? But no. Then as I went out to my car the rain was absolutely pouring down and being as its my first car and I haven't been driving that long I didn't know where the heated rear windscreen thing was so I drove back practically blinded!!!
I mean I know it inconvieniences people me moving so late in my pregnancy but they get paid for their job, they shouldn't make me feel like I'm being a pain becuse of my personal circumstances.
I'm so bored as well, got no idea what to do till my due date...Me and my OH both have colds and are miserable, its miserable weather and I haven't even had a twinge. I feel like a failure for not having my lo earlier. I'm not sure why. And I feel incredibly jealous of all the women who had their los at 38 weeks...why arent I one of them?
I just know I'm going 2 weeks over, have barely even had a fake contraction. I'm seriously doubting that my body even knows how to give birth.
I dunno whats wrong, just feel so angry....Someone please tell me to stop being a silly cow!!!! xxx
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Just think how far you've come and you're now soooo close to the finish line. Just hang in there, won't be long now I can assure u.
Love, Karys xoxox
Carly...I read on your other thread that you went 17 days over...so i really should shut up lolxxxx
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No wonder you were being a stroppy cow Carly, I feel like I am getting there lol. Like in friends when Rachel was overdue lol!!! xxx
I've got PLENTY things you could be getting on with round my house - cleaning, preparing my baby stuff, more cleaning (builders still in and dust everywhere). I can almost guarantee I'll put you into labour LOL!
Karenxx
32+4
You are not a failure for not having your baby yet, infact you are obviously doing such a good job he wants to stay in longer!
I don't think anything could put me into labour! I went swimming yesterday and did loads of lengths, not even a twinge. I'm still driving (and my crap driving could put a non pregnant person into labour haha). Washed the car, cleaned out the room, lifted heavy objects, had a lot of sex....nothing!
In my first trimester I was hoping for a sticky baby haha but not THIS sticky........
Good luck and fingers crossed you don't go too far overdue!
Have been approached by a woman who wants to do a mutual exchange coz her 3 bed house is too big for her and if its given the go ahead will be within the next 6 wks!!! Normally that would be fine but in 6 1/2 wks am going in for my c/section!!!!! The house is only 200 yds from where I live so would not normally be a problem but have to use a wheelchair outside the house now! Can see me being put in chair with boxes on top and being shoved down the road! The words "Brian Potter" spring to mind lol
So if you are still bored lol
That sounds sooo stressful! Its good when the council do exchanges though. There must be so many old people in massive houses that they can't look after properly & loads of families cramped in small houses.
Make your sons & husband do all the moving furniture while you direct them! I would....lolxxx
Good luck Lee, hope it pays off and I'm not taking any glee whatsoever from the fact that you are in the same situation. None at all........hehex
(maybe you could attach a little trailer to the back of the wheelchair!!!)
I really really want this move but am now in a complete panic -should I do it before Tommy gets here (with SPD) or try and delay it til just after my c/section! Either way is gonna be a nightmare but I suppose the 1st option - a nightmare with more room would be best!
Am still in shock tbh! Within 24 hours have gone from panicing about having no room, then approached for this exchange and a sudden move! Gotta grab it while I can!
Defo thinking bout the trailer - I can steer the wheelchair backwards and forwards (no corners) so should be able to manage it lol - imagine how much money I could save rather than renting a van to move me 200 yds!
Just hope it's not raining on the day or you're gonna get a bit wet going up and down the street all day - I've got such a wicked picture in my mind now of you and your trailer with a rain mac and make shift brolly contraption. Oh dear, think it must be time for bed!xx (maybe your oh could soup it up pimp my ride stylee so it has a bit of va va voom?)
So, rainmac, airhorn (playing la cucaracha), makeshift brolley. No - will stay inside organising things I think - let everyone else do it but they can borrow the wheelchair lol
Night mate!!
LOL Kerry - were you there when your friend got stuck - I'd have had me camera phone out big time - youtube here we come!!!!!
Karenxx
The 'had any signs' questions and the 'still here?' phone calls have started today! Boo. Feeling more positive now anyway and kind of accepted he's going to take a bit longer cooking. Will be p*ssed off if I have to be induced tho as I really didn't want an epidural and it seems everyone who is induced has one. Going to ask for a sweep next thurs, see if it starts anything!xxx