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I'm having a bad 5 mins :(
I'm really frickin' grumpy today, so completely fed up of being pregnant I just want him out, I'm way to hot and I put on 5lb last week 5LBS!!!!!! thats a pound a day and nearly 4 stone overall. If I carry on putting on 5lb each week that will be another 30lb by the time I'm due thats 6 stone overall!!!!!! making me 17 stone thats nearly the size of a small elephant. My dear father in law felt the need to say "oh look here comes slimmer of the year" when I walked in the house on saturday therefore making me totally miserable and so I buried my head in a magazine and wished I was dead. I can't sleep cos my hips can't bear the extra weight for longer than 30 minutes at a time
Sorry for the rant it just feels like it's never going to be over lol
Caz
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Sorry for the rant it just feels like it's never going to be over lol
Caz
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35.2 wks
I keep telling myself it will all be worth it
My fil has made many similar comments before but I try to ignore it, luckily my dh stood up for me and told him to shut up. My dad weighs 20 stone and has been on a diet for a while now and has managed to loose 3 stone (I'm very proud of him) I decided to tell fil that my dad was on a diet and he said "what the seafood diet! he sees food and he eats it" thats made me so unbeliveably angry its unreal what a w****r, fil is a horrible man sometimes and was really horrible to dh telling him he was a usuless c**t etc and now dh is saying that he won't let fil see lo when he is born.
So the s**t has well and truely hit the fan!
Nightmare!
Caz
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I can't belive he said that, they really just don't think do they, my dad takes the mick all the time but he's my dad, he's allowed to and I know he doesn't mean anything by it but if FIL so much as commented on me, actually he did the other week, he said well you've always been big haven't you, meaning in pregnancy, but i did take it to heart. But a big pat on the back for your dad, 3 stone is amazing.
Em x
How are you anyway Tammi?
Caz
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I'm really proud of my dad as he has had countless operations this year and has managed to get over them enough to start loosing the weight he has been desperate to loose, and comments like that from fil just make me angry as the only thing he ever tries hard at is drinking beer!
It's hard not to take comments to heart even if they are meant in jest, it's not like we would ever go up to someone who was overweight and call them "fatty" or make comments on how they look but people seem to think when you are pregnant they have a right to say stuff.
On the up side, when dh saw how upset I was he took me out to a restaurant that I had been subtly hinting I wanted to go to and said lots of nice things to me and made me feel beautiful again.
Caz
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Em x
Caz
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Glad to hear things are going well I haven't had the heartburn experience yet so will probably think I'm dying when it eventually happens lol I'm such a drama queen.
Caz
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