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help need some advice!!!
hi this maybe a bit long, so please bear with me. i need some advice, i dont know what to do.
im nearly 19 i came to live back home with my parents again last january.
the problem is my dad suffers with epilepsy really bad, also he goes back to child like moments, also got severe depression.
the thing is the council will not give me aplace due to it not being overcrowded at home and i cant afford to go private at the moment.
they will not listen to me about the safety of my child.
i am overdue by 2 days and my dad had a fit this morning and i had to hold him otherwise he would of cracked his head open on the cabniets.
this happens all the time and i cant handle it anymore.
what if the baby is in the moses basket and he falls on her or something. i have got to watch him 24/7. im sorry for going on just need help making me very stressed and depressed! x
zoe 40+2
im nearly 19 i came to live back home with my parents again last january.
the problem is my dad suffers with epilepsy really bad, also he goes back to child like moments, also got severe depression.
the thing is the council will not give me aplace due to it not being overcrowded at home and i cant afford to go private at the moment.
they will not listen to me about the safety of my child.
i am overdue by 2 days and my dad had a fit this morning and i had to hold him otherwise he would of cracked his head open on the cabniets.
this happens all the time and i cant handle it anymore.
what if the baby is in the moses basket and he falls on her or something. i have got to watch him 24/7. im sorry for going on just need help making me very stressed and depressed! x
zoe 40+2
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the thing is i have tried this. i have even got doctors letters and my mum has sent letters and be to the council. also i have a connexions advisor who has wrote letters. there just at an end to all this. im just going down hill. my boyfriend gets it all in the ear from me where i am so stressed.and i dont mean to take it out on him lol.
the flat i had b4 was a little studio flat and it was just for people aged between 16 and 24 who are at college or in training.
also you are not aloud kids there and you are only aloud to stay for a period of time.
it was like supported housing if you like.
i had to leave to because my dad went in hospital due to his health and stayed there for almost 2 years on and off.
i appreciate what you have said and will try again and again if i have too. thankyou xx
zoe 40 +4
my parents have already wrote a letter and been to the council offices but the person i saw was a rite idiot thinks he was better then everyone else.
would not let me get a word in.
thanx for the advice and i think i may try some of these if havent done so already once the baby is born cheers guys .
xxx
dont wanna be induced on saturday but guess ill have too.
how is every1 doing are you all ok!!!