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hurt and upset
hi, im feeling really upset and low coz i asked my oh why he has been avoding me in the bedroom department ( if you know what i mean). anyway he says to me "sorry i just dont find preganant women attractive". to this i said" im not talking about preganant women im talking about us" and all my oh half could do was just look away. i asked him if this is going to be like this for the next 4 months , he just looked away again and said " sorry i didnt want to upset you" and he then walked off to mess about on his laptop. i know that im proberly being silly but what he said has really upset me.( by the way we already have a daughter so i dont understand why he is being like this with our second preganacy). again i know im proberly being silly but i just feel like he would rather be with his mates then me(ie he went out with his mates 3 times last week and going out agin 3 times this week). sorry i just feel like i cant talk to anyone about this. x.
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there is no point to him avoiding u as this aint gonna go away and the longer its left without talking about it the harder it will be, and he really needs to be spending time with u and ur daughter over nights out with mates! 3x a week is a bit much hun.
sorry im not much help, hope things get better soon. xx
remind him that you are only pregnant for a wee while and when baby is born you'll be back to normal, but that he will still be the same prat he is now! No offence, im sure he's lovely but he really needs to grow up. xx
take care
Lin
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