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Good point of having a boy...
Hiya I thought it would be great to have too lists going one for boys and one for girls of all the nice reasons why its best or why you are pleased to be having that sex...
As Zoey has spoken about recently she has been a bit disapointed because she is not having what she thought but i'm sure she is not the only one to feel that way...
thought it would be really nice to have the lists going so pregnant hormonal disapointment girlies could read (i'm included in that was sure was having a little girl but having a boy) and think oh yeah thats a lovely reason to be having that sex child!
Good reason to have a boy is most Dad's feel a massive sence of acheivement lol that there first child is a boy..
It's nice to have a boy first if you like traditional families and want the boy to look after the younger ones (althought ill be bring my girls if i have any up as idpendant little beings) but its a nice idea.
please feel free to add away girls x
As Zoey has spoken about recently she has been a bit disapointed because she is not having what she thought but i'm sure she is not the only one to feel that way...
thought it would be really nice to have the lists going so pregnant hormonal disapointment girlies could read (i'm included in that was sure was having a little girl but having a boy) and think oh yeah thats a lovely reason to be having that sex child!
Good reason to have a boy is most Dad's feel a massive sence of acheivement lol that there first child is a boy..
It's nice to have a boy first if you like traditional families and want the boy to look after the younger ones (althought ill be bring my girls if i have any up as idpendant little beings) but its a nice idea.
please feel free to add away girls x
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A good point of having a boy is they are never going to come home from school and say 'I'm pregnant'!!!
But then i lok back at how hard it's been to conceive this child and how the pregnancy hasn't been all that great (morning sickness). this is going to be my only child and i know 3 family members who have never been able to conceive a child, and then i know a child is a blessing whether it is a boy or a girl, I will embrace them and love them and teach them all i can and more....and whose to say i can't drees my little girl in a footy kit, people can double take and stare as much as they want!!
Whose to say i can't dress my little boy in pink (within moderation) , after all my husband has got quite a few pink or salmon shirts himself.
I feel there are no real pros or cons to having a boy or a girl, but there are a lot of pros to having a healthy child!!
[Modified by: Jess17 on March 06, 2008 04:31 PM]
OH would conjure a girl with his magic wand, as they usually have boy babies in his family.
Either way we'll be happy!
Girls are much worse in their teens I think - 14-17 was awful!!
Have to say both my girls played football though, so had 2 sets of football boots in the house. Wee one used to go from football practice to ballet classes on the same day!
They are all different and will be/do what they want to do.
Tiger Lily - I'm also with you - can't remember the last time I had sex! Poor OH, my SPD would just make it too bloody painful, even if I felt like it!!
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boys are best - what else gives you complete satisfaction by wee-ing all over you when you change them bums !!!
(girls are great to id just always wanted a little boy !)
of course a healthy child is a blessing as in any child! were not saying one is better than the other... all children are beautiful regardless! xxx
sorry if that came across as if i was making one out to be better than the other it was supposed to be a light hearted joke about them wee-ing on you
sorry to cause affenceops:
I love my boys too pieces and wouldnt swap them but this time the only good thing I can think good is "Thank god Im not having a mini-me!" Get myself in a right state over my teenage son and what he gets up to, god only knows what hell I would go through with a girl (esp if she was a bitch like I was lol)
I love my boys too pieces and wouldnt swap them but this time the only good thing I can think good is "Thank god Im not having a mini-me!" Get myself in a right state over my teenage son and what he gets up to, god only knows what hell I would go through with a girl (esp if she was a bitch like I was lol)
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love thay they are arguing over who carries your hand bag lol x
Last week it was my nephew's 3rd birthday (my husband's brother's son) and we went round to give him his present. When we got there he was showing everyone the golf clubs he got from his parents - proper mini golf clubs in a proper mini golf bag. He was so proud of them because his daddy plays golf and now he has his own set of clubs, just like daddy. My husband is also a golfer (a lot of it about on his side of the family!) and I got to imagine the day our son gets his first set of clubs and how proud my husband will be. It was just a really emotional thing to see. And it will get them out of the house and leave me in piece for a while!
I would love to have a little girl I could dress up in pretty pink "hello kitty" t-shirts but I get to dress my wee boy in cute preppy shirts and tank tops - can't wait!